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Please do NOT send me a friend request without messaging me first. If I don't know you, it's getting rejected.
Also, my profile isn't that long people, so read it before you message me.
What to say, what to say. I got into the BDSM scene when I was in high school, which isn't really the easiest thing to do. I actually tried things out as a Sub to begin with, but my first "Master" had very little idea what he was doing, and was an ass hat in general. I am not usually good at taking orders in the first place, so being a Domme came more naturally to me. Things stayed that way for about three years or so. Honestly though, I find that being dominant to someone with no spine, just doesn't do it for me. Neither do I want someone in my life who feels the need to be my 'Dom' all the time. I am a switch, and I like other switches.
Outside of the kink, I am very much into anime and go to the Denver convention every year. Always in costume, of course. I am also a furry and go to the Denver fur con as well. I work a lot, and though I love my job, I'm still there a bit more than I'd really like to be. On weekends I really like to get out and do things. I shop, go to movies, go out for food, go on walks, what ever I feel like at the time. I also do a lot of reading, I'm quite the bookworm. You will rarely find me very far from whatever book I'm in love with at the time. One of my biggest turn offs, is when a person tells me that they don't read. Like, seriously? How can you not?
The most important info if you're interested in contacting me for anything other than friendship, is that I am in an open relationship. My man and I are very happy together, and we are also poly. For us, that means that we are committed to each other, but also enjoy other relationships. If you're not ok with that, there's really no point in pursuing me.
I have been told before that I can be a total bitch. While I like to think that I am usually a very kind person, I'll admit, when I get mad, ya, I am a complete raging bitch monster. And I accept this about myself. I am not a fetish dispenser, I do not owe anyone anything, be it sex, submission, or my time or attention. I am a human being. I deserve every bit of respect any other human being should get. So, if you wouldn't say it to a woman on the street or in the grocery store, don't put it in your first message.
So, that's me in a nut shell. Sort of odd, book-wormy, video gaming, D&D playing, awesome food cooking, vaguely masochistic, self-respecting, bite mark leaving, aint dealing with your shit, short chick with little dog syndrome. I am myself, and I wont apologize for it, but that just means the only people who stick around in my life are the ones who truly deserve to be there.
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