My husband has recently discovered that he enjoys cross dressing - mostly just panties and lingerie.  We may expand upon that to include wigs and make up at some point in the future. 

We both enjoy strap on play.  I love putting my cock on and watching him suck it or take it in his ass.  I find this play to be very sensual, thrilling and intoxicating. 

I would classify my husband as a fetishist - he enjoys anal play, panties and is curious about bisexual and transgender play.

Myself, I classify very well as a switch.  I began my BDSM journey as a sub female but am finding submission to come much less easily for me now...lots of reasons - none of which I'll go into here. 

I love to drive my partner wild.  I love to just be wild and feel fabulous! This allows me to explore a wide variety of kink - from straight sex with the usual Male D/female s roles to non-cis genderplay with strap-on play and fetishist flavor.