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Pan Male Switch, 34,  Melbourne, Australia
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I thought it was about time to update this and bring it more into line with my other profiles on other sites now I am using this site more again. I do have an amazing princess by my side but wont be switching this profile to a couples profile. She knows about my search for a Dominant play partner and I am happy to provide links to both of our profiles elsewhere to verify her knowledge of my search.

Welcome to my slice of kinky heaven o)

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More about vanilla me
I am devilish cheeky, I can be as sweet as sugar, loyal, as stubborn as they come, a father, a friend, a big kid at heart, honest, smart, I love to flirt, I make mistakes (dont we all?), I am independent, I can be shy oh so shy, but get inside the walls and you wont shut me up, I am curious, I am always evolving. I work hard and like to play just as hard, I am playful, I am an exhibitionist, I am easy going, I am bi, I love to be challenged, I am always thirsty for more of life.

Kinky me
As I have grown and continue to evolve through this journey of mine I have found parts of myself that I didnt know existed, things I had never considered I would enjoy. One thing I am finding is I am becoming more and more curious about so many things. I identify as a switch and I am Dominant to my princess, I currently do not subbottom to anyone.... but I am certainly looking to change this, the time in my life has come where I need to indulge both sides of my Switch. I can be quite stubborn at times, I love to please am somewhat sadomasochistic, love to learn and experience new things.

I have been lucky enough to have met my true princess and could not be happier. With her by my side I have a been able to experience some amazing things and together we keep creating new fantasies, wants and desires, things to try and experiment with. We are both here to continue to learn, play, meet new people and enjoy all sorts of yummy experiences. We are always happy to chat so drop us a message or come say hi if you see us out and about.

Some of the things I like both as a Top and bottom and in no set order

Ass play
Electro play (still learning this one)
Impact play
Giving massages (well too I am told)
Body worship
Some levels of HumiliationDegradation
Wrestling and tickling
Check out my fetishes list for more o)

There is a multitude of things I am curious about and will hopefully get to try some day some of which are - being suspended, fire play, needles.... I have tried this once and would like to try again after a bad experience, being locked in a vac bed and teased and tortured, urethral sounds, and the list goes on and on. Happy to be a willing test subject for any of these.


What Iwe are looking for
We are always happy to make new connections and friends to attend events with and generally hang out.

On a more personal note I am now starting my search for a Dominant play partner with the blessing and support of my amazing princess. I am looking for someone I can explore, experiment and experience with with preferably in an ongoing arrangement, I havent engaged my submissive side or bottomed in some time so my current pain tolerances are quite low but I am looking to work on this again. While this is largely for me personally it would be great to be able to find someone that is happy for my princess to be in attendance and possibly join in from time to time.

Results from 29918
100 Switch
100 Rope bunny
99 Voyeur
99 Sadist
98 Exhibitionist
97 Rigger
97 Primal (Hunter)
95 MasterMistress
92 Degrader
90 Submissive
90 Degradee
86 Masochist
86 Dominant
84 Slave
83 Non-monogamist
76 BoyGirl
76 Owner
70 Primal (Prey)
60 Experimentalist
51 Brat
51 Brat tamer
46 Ageplayer
44 Pet
44 DaddyMommy
18 Vanilla












 Male Switch



 5' 8"

 98 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant male

Submissive female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Female Led Couples


Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Anal Play




 Lifestyle BDSM








 Body Worship


 Breast Play



 Electrical Play


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Being Massaged


 Hair Pulling



 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Giving)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play


 Speech Restrictions


 Wax Play


 Arcade Games

 Card Games


 Horror Movies

 Simulation Games

 Paranormal Phenomena

 Female Sovereignty


 Alternative Music

 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music

 Auto Racing


 Amusement Parks

 Bar Hopping


 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales





 Horseback Riding


 Surf Boarding

 Canes and Crops




 Genital Punishment

 Local BDSM Community

 Foot Worship

 Housework Service


 Mental Bondage


 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Control


 Sensation Play

 Clothing Selection

 Maid / Butler Service

 Oral Service


 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish



 Suspension Bondage


 Board Games


 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows


 Online Chatrooms

 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction


 True Crime

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing







 Nineties Music

 Pop Music







 Horse Racing

 Ice Hockey





 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries





 Curious About:


 Corner Time

 G-spot Stimulation

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play

 Gas Masks

 Medical fetish play

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Theatrical Scenes

 Vacuum Stimulation

 1950s Lifestyle

 FLR Options

 Old Guard


 Victorian Lifestyle

 Sky Diving


 Going to the Opera

 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires







 Hard Limits:

 Modern Primitivism


 Auto Mechanic

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Journal Entries:
2/18/2014 2:51:21 PM

Switch 96%

Bondage 96%

Sadist 93%

Exhibitionist 82%

Submissive 79%

Experimental 75%

Dominant 61%

Masochist 54%

Vanilla 18%

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