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SwitchWarrior

I'm a switch but enjoy doing either/or. Although recently I want to concentrate more on my sub side. When I am in a Dom head space, I love to control people and have them under my spell, I am not sadistic not really into inflicting pain but do like to get into people's mind. Before only played at submitting, now I want to be more serious. Would love to explore this inherent sub side of my nature further with the right person. A bit about me++++++++++++ The best written profile in the world could never give you a view of the whole person. Here goes, I am a guy who is confident and has an out going personality, a nice toned body, non smoker, educated can have an interesting conversation. Even though I am in the BDSM lifestyle, it is not the end all be all of my existence. I have a very active and rewarding vanilla life, there is no need for me to play every day. Generally speaking I have other pursuits, activities, friends that I spend time on. Really love to read normally have a few books on the go. Currently doing a post graduate degree in philosophy, practice and teach martial arts. I have a passion for travelling and love to meet new people and experience different cultures. Currently learning to fly a helicopter, I work for myself and have a well balanced healthy lifestyle that includes BDSM. The type of person I am looking for+++++++++++++++ White Caucasian Female with her own natural assets.(By female, I mean someone who was born a female and lives their life as a female. (Not looking for CD, TV or transgender person) Non Smoker who lives in the London area, available for private play, going to clubs and spend quality time with each other. She should be confident, sexy be able to hold a conversation. It is important that we connect mentally, to me the most powerful sexual organ is the "mind". The type of play I like+++++++++++++ I am looking for a Goddess to worship, the activities I like is - mind control, affirming influence, verbal humiliation, light to medium spanking/pain, slapping, scratching and biting as well as caressing my flesh with the sting of your hand. Want someone who is willing to use a strap-on dildo on me, also would like to meet someone for ANR. I would like to meet a woman that will be emotionally involved with me during play. I am very responsive and will give you loads of feed back. For the right person I have a lot to give, I am a qualified massage therapist who knows how to give a proper massage, I specialise in traditional Thai massage and oil massage and aromatherapy. I can give a mean massage to soothe away all your aches and pains in your body. I equally expect lot in return from the person I enter into a relationship with. I make no apologies for defining the type of person I am looking for, have no desire to be vague, to lead people on falsely and cause confusion. Please when you reply make sure you write more than one line, have a detailed profile, with a clear face picture or be willing to send one to me privately. Have no problem with chatting online, if its online cyber play your looking for then I am not interested, I am not on IC to play email tennis, would prefer to meet people in the real world to develop a real life relationship, its when I meet someone face to face then I will know if there is any chemistry. I am not looking for a 24/7 or TPE relationship. Feel free to memo me if you want to say hello, chat, exchange ideas or invite me to parties. Always looking for friends in the BDSM community.
whitetrashmn
 
 Age: 29
 Jefferson, Ohio