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Greetings,

We're Master A and Slave S or Andre and Syren. A MARRIED COUPLE (Hmmmmmm....now why is that capitalized, probably because it's a very important fact about us!) who have been married for almost 11 years and together for nearly 14. We're the parents of two beautiful kids and happily successful in our careers.

We use to have individual profiles here, but that got too confusing. So we decided to just create one and share it. so you never know who you'll be talking too!!! Bwahahahahaha...(Evil Laugh for you fuckers who think they can get syren to have Cyber sex with them!)

Speaking of careers...Andre is the VP of Technology for a nationwide company and owner of of a video Production company and Photography/Web Design firm. Syren is a very successful model, as well as mainstream and adult industry actress. She travels to california 2 to 4 times a month as well as other places in the country to follow her career.

Andre has been in the BDSM community for nearly 18 years, and Syren for just over 10. Andre is a Switch, though 90% of the time Dominant, Syren is a switch though 90% of the time submissive.

Now, we are not looking, nor will we respond to emails from people or pertaining to "Syren, I'm can proivde a better life for you", or "Syren, I can be a better Master to you." Truthfully that's a bunch of crap and only a sleaze ball would resort to tactics like that to try to bring someone into their life....make your own, don't try to steal someone else's. LOL...

We ARE looking for other switches. Fm, M, or Couples. All must be bi. Someone who can partner with Andre in enjoying Syren's ample charms and abilities, but who on occasion, Like Andre, would like to be on the other end of the flogger so to speak. LOL.

We won't relocate anyone to us, not because we can't, it's just that it's a ridiculous idea to plan that sort of thing online. Especially if you haven't met someone, interacted with them, and gotten to know them for quite sometime before inviting them to join a family. Which brings us to...We are NOT looking to add someone full time into our family. It's perfect the way it is. We don't need another person in it. But we would like friends, who have the same interests, desires, and twisted perversions...LOL.

We will not respond to people who have a blank profile, tell us they can't send pictures because they don't have any and can't get some. It's the 21st century for gosh sake, you can get a digital camera for under 100 bucks and take pics to share. There is no excuse for not having pics. We do have websites. Business ones for Andre, and a wonderfully dirty porn site for Syren. No, we're not just gonna give you the links because you ask. Be our friend first, then we'll share with you.

We're not going to meet you and immediately let you start whoopin on Syren and fucking her. It doesn't matter that we take part in the swinging and BDSM communities or she does adult movies. Be mature, get to know us. It doesn't mean that we let any Tom, Dick, Harry, Jane etc climb between her legs or use her for their whipping post. Get real.

So if you've read this far, We've kept your attention. That means something was there. So message us, and lets see if we can form a friendship.

Be well.

Master Andre and Slave Syren

Ps...We'll get some recent photos of Andre uploaded here very soon. Enjoy Syren until then.
3/2/2007 11:55:45 AM
Ok lets clarify this as well....LOL...when we say Andre is a Switch, it means he likes having the tools of the trade used on him. He really likes pain, bondage etc. But is NOT a slave! LOL...quite the opposite. He does not "submit", he makes friends with others who like to just use toys. When it comes to the actual lifestyle/community,he is completely Dominant.
~Grin~
Andre & syren
3/2/2007 11:44:03 AM
As we keep getting asked her age, the age on our profile is that of the lovely slave syren (37). Master Andre is 39.
Thanks.
Andre & syren
3/2/2007 7:46:37 AM
If you would like links to our websites, or Instant messenger ID's send us a polite email. We do NOT cyber, though sometimes we do turn on the webcam to prove we are real...LOL....

Andre & Syren
2/28/2007 7:01:29 PM
THE NAME OF OUR LIFESTYLE:
Written By Master Andre
Our lifestyle, like the P/people in it has a wide diverse variety of names. A few are:

BDSM

D/s

The Scene

Master/slave

TPE

24/7

And it has subnames like:

Gorean Etc.

It came to me though, that only a couple truly explain what the lifestyle is about.

D/s

TPE

Yet the name most often attached to Our lifstyle is probably the one that We shouldn't have associated with it:

BDSM

Lets brake it down:

B - Bondage

D - Domination

S - Sadism

M - Masochism

 
Bondage - this is just ONE aspect of the lifestyle, by using this in the name We might as well call it BFCNBWFDSM or
BondageFloggingCroppingNeedlesBladesWaxFireDominationSadismMasochism
That would be a little hard though for the Nilla's (vanilla public) and Novices to get their toungues around. So why talk about a "toy" in the name?

 
Domination - This talks about Dominating and controlling another, but nothing is said about submitting (no..not masochism you'll see why in a moment). So Shouldn't this part be D/s for BD/sSm...Hmmm I can see a problem here with people not understanding the two 'S'.

 
Sadism - I don't know about many of you, but I have on file EVERY piece of published literature by the Marquis De Sade where this term comes from. That makes sense you say, anyone in the lifestyle should. To this I say...WRONG!...Sadism, in it's true meaning and what it actually means by being a take off of the Marquis name is something We try NOT to do. It's true meaning and the way the Marquis describes it is ... Getting sexual gratification through the non consensual torture of another individual...Mainly because the Marquis preferred UNWILLING victims for his sexual gratification...Now maybe I'm wrong but Aren't We all trying to promote the CONSENSUAL torture so to speak? By having sadism in there it appears that all the people in the lifestyle are CONDONING NON Consensual torture and sex.

 
Masochism - This term is supposed to mean the submissive or slave portion of the lifestyle, but there are many People in the lifestyle who are NOT submissive but they are masochists. Masochism is the enjoyment of receiving pain and torture. But you don't have to be submissive to do this.

 
So I summerize it this way:

 
B - Bondage - A single toy/aspect of the lifestyle when there could be any single other one used or none at all.

D - Domination - but yes the submissives should get equal billing here.

S - Sadism - Unwilling victims Non consensually being raped and tortured for anothers sexual gratification - Probably not how We want the public to see U/us.

M - Masochism - Not meant as the descriptive for the submissives as others enjoy pain as much as SOME submissives do so it's stereotyping submissives.

 
My solution is this. Personally, I think the lifestyle should have one of three names. And I'd like...part of my crusade in the lifstyle, if you agree to have you pass these thoughts along to others.

 
D/s or D&S- Domination & Submission
PE - Power Exchange (A TPE would be a version of this)

Or my favorite which I feel explains it to the ignorant nilla public and Novices the best as it lists the two main components and what goes on between them.

DSPE - DominantSubmissivePowerExchange. It lists the two main components and what takes place between them.

 
The lifestyle isn't all about pain. It's about communicating, trust, respect, humiliation, degradation, Training, giving guidance, expectations, What a Dom(me) expects the subs to do and what the subs can expect from the Dom(me)s. It's about Showing people a path to follow or helping them live out a fantasy which may or may not include pain. So why should pain be two of the four main components of the most often used name? Its about giving and receiving.

 
Thus,

DSPE

A Dominant and submissive have a power exhange that lets them live out not only their fantasies, but a different way of life from the nilla public. In the power echange they can experience untold forms of mental and physical stimulations. Pleasure and pain but the undercurrent here is it's all a power exchange.

 
So, What I will be doing in not only the book I am working on, but on the new website is trying to promote a true descriptive name for the lifestyle. And truthfully I believe this is the best. It's short, to the point and lets the nilla public know what the lifestyle is actually about.
 
LilMissSallySue
 
 Age: 37
 Orlando, Florida