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| Looking primarily for a Gentle Dom, Daddy Dom or Top. I am open to making friends. I am primarily submissive but have a little bit of switch in me and because of my drive to learn, understand and grow I would be somewhat interested in finding a bottom to please with my floggers. :-)
My own spirit longs for a D/s exchange that will open me up and let me fly. That requires trust, respect, affection, understanding and perhaps effort, although one can always hope for a fit that is so amazing it feels effortless. Dominance and submission are both precious gifts. Whether it is a monogamous romantic exchange or a play partner friendship, the people involved should not be taken for granted. The mental, emotional and physical well-being of each should be cherished, protected, inspired and nurtured. Headspace and aftercare are important to me, as is exploration and growth. I'm not interested in people who cannot connect to others and just seek serial kinky fuckery.
I love a good flogging (read Joseph Bean's book - it's amazing), vaginal, anal, a little cane only if well warmed up, skin on skin, nipple/breast play, restraints, squirting, rope, spanking (warmed up properly), butt plugs, etc. I strongly desire play that warms me up well and increases in intensity and let's me grow in exploring various sensations and what I can take. I like sensations in general... Even the soft, gentle, sensual. I want my Dom/Top to bask in his dominance, power, control, energy surge but not to lose sight of safety and responsibility. I want to discuss scenes later and what went well and was amazing for both and discuss ideas and dreams of scenes that he would like to try. Sharing is caring.
I want to explore wax play, violet wand, maybe fisting (not sure), mummification (all wrapped up in a cacoon, maybe my inner little, which I don't know a lot about.
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