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So I'm fresh to this world. I literally just discovered (on Halloween no less) that this what exactly what I'd been looking for all along. I'd tried subconsciously living as a sub in all my past relationships, trying to push them into being my Dom without ever putting that label on it. I always asked permission to do even the smallest of things, announced things like needing to use the restroom, asked what to wear, what to eat, when to eat, etc. However, without knowing I was a sub trying to find a Dom, I ended up in all vanilla relationship. I recently found a Dom who opened my eyes not only to the world but to what I did and did not want. Now that I know he isn't what I want (he wanted multiple subs under him all the time), I'm on the search for a new Dom.
UPDATE: Outside of my physical preferences, I am looking for someone strong enough to make me want to submit to him. He has to be stronger than me, honorable, trustworthy, compassionate...if he's a strong man, he should know he has a responsibility towards weaker people. It probably sounds idealistic, but I think strength should be used to protect the weak. I want someone with a strength of character to stand by his convictions and do what's right even when it's not convenient. I also want someone who is intelligent, reasonable and protective. I also want a Dom who recognizes my intelligence and accomplishments and doesn't try to make me feel less than what I am, who recognizes my achievements and is proud of me. I always want to be mentally stimulated, understood and made to feel safe. In return, I'll give him my complete devotion and submission because I know he deserves them and they're his by right of who he is.
WARNING: I am a sub but I know exactly what I want and what I don't want. My Dom will be CHOSEN because he has what I want. I'm not an open-to-anyone-and-anything kind of sub. I need to trust you, to know you, and to be with you. I don't share well, either. So if you're not interested in being monogomous, I'm not the one for you.
A LITTLE BIT MORE ABOUT ME:
I'm 24, divorced, no kids. I have my own apartment but I chose not to get a car because I just used my truck for most things. Unfortunately now I don't have my rig anymore so I'm working on getting a car ASAP. I'm also not driving a truck anymore, but trucking is in my blood. I'll always be a trucker :)
I am honest to a fault and expect the same in return. I am very affectionate and very understanding and compassionate. I like all kinds of music (except screamo, hardcore rap, and stuff that you just can't understand). I also like lots of different types of movies, several varieties of activities, and I'm a complete and total nerd. And NO, COD and Halo, to me, do not qualify as being a nerd.
I enjoy playing video games just as much as I love going swimming or hiking or camping or fishing. I like watching movies, or YouTube, or TV, just as much as I love reading books. I like art, tattoos, trucks, music, comics, football, drinking socially, pool, motorcycles, dancing, singing, star-gazing, and so much more. This life is too short to live the same year over and over 75 times. I want to travel, see the world, experience everything I can, and just soak it all up. ALL of it. The little things are important too. Sipping coffee and listening to the world go by, cuddling my favorite person, or just talking about the future. I'm a hopeless romantic and I hope you are too.
In essence, I am unique, free, and flexible. I don't have a formula to how I am or how I do things. Almost every question you can think of to ask me, will result in an answer of "That depends..." because it does.
WHAT I NEED MOST FROM YOU:
Communication is a requirement. If you can't talk to me, don't waste my time. It doesn't have to be every second of every day, but don't talk to me one time a week and expect me to stay interested. Also, dependability within the scope of reality. If you say you're going to text/call/come over at a certain time, do it. Or a have a good reason why you didn't. I understand lifes happens but at least keep me updated, if possible, so I'm not wondering. Outside of those things (and being monogomous), I will be a good sub for the right Dom. I'll do everything I can to please you, within the scope of reality.
UPDATE: I am in no way interested in "Netflix and chill" nights. I would consider meeting in person but only after we talk and get to know each other. I'm looking for companionship and compatibility for a lifelong relationship, because let's be honest, how many relationships that last haven't been based on a foundation of friendship? I like good company, good conversation, and good people. Plain and simple.
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