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AsylumVictoria
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| Just to clear some things up, I'm not new to Collar Me :) This account is new, but I've been using CM for 2 years now... but thank you all for the sweet welcomes nonetheless. ;)
18 year old female Switch (I'd say I have tendencies to be either more Dominant or more submissive, but it REALLY depends on the people...) in a long-term relationship with another 18 year old female Switch with more submissive tendencies. That's the utmost basic information I can give you about me.
We're looking to learn more about swinging and (potentially) polyamory, and meeting men, women, Dom/mes and subs in NSW to get to know, on this basis and just for the sake of making friends.
That said at the moment I'd like this to be a purely sexual, initially online (and potentially only online, unless you make a particularly wonderful impression and we all want to meet up IRL) thing and therefore it's more like we want to swing sexually rather than settle down in a polygamous relationship at this stage. My girl and I put each other first, and it's likely to stay that way, so please don't expect otherwise in that regard.
That being said, my interests in BDSM are bondage, sensation play, spanking, anal play, orgasm control and denial, LOTS of roleplay, semi-public play, pet play, and there's probably other things I've forgotten. Things I WON'T do are kids, scat, animals, nothing too unusual but still. Other than that, I'm open to suggestions and always ready to try new things!
For a partner my biggest physical concerns are someone healthy and relatively happy in themselves, other than that it doesn't usually worry me if we hit it off. However, I like someone laid back but fairly confident, with a good sense of humour, and who's happy and wants to have a friendship that goes beyond just sex... and of course respecting limits and feelings are very important, too.
I will say I really don't like Dom/mes who message me thinking they've got ANY right to act as though they're above or dominant over me before we've even started a conversation. I'm not submissive unless for some reason I feel you DESERVE my submission, so don't delude yourselves otherwise. Act like you are and I'll assume the exact opposite, and you probably won't get a reply: you're not Dominant, you're arrogant, and there's a BIG difference.
I have plenty of interests outside of BDSM - obviously - so if any of those pique your interest (or, since I don't think it's listed, you have an interest in anime or Japanese pop culture - oh shh, we all have guilty pleasures!) go ahead and message me too, all sexual aspects aside!
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Sorry it's taken me so long to reply to everyone this last little while; had the flu for a week now and honestly have not been bothered to reply on CM. |
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Amazed by some of the people on this site.
I'm a switch, yes, but a switch with DOMINANT TENDENCIES. This means I'm not going to take kindly to being treated like a sub - or more accurately, like a sub you already own. Stop deluding yourselves. If I like you and I think there's a chance I might want to be submissive, I'LL TELL YOU. Do NOT take it upon yourselves to think otherwise.
Two: there is nothing wrong with being a switch! I HATE hearing people go "oh, but you're just on the fence" because it is absolute bull, the same way people think the same thing about being bisexual. I like different aspects of being both Dominant and submissive to certain people and in certain situations; I'm not "on the fence" about ANYTHING. Yes, I'm more Domme than sub and it shows, but because I KNOW I could submit and enjoy that too.
Rant over, but honestly, show me some respect!! |
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