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Pan Female Switch, 35,  Coventry, United Kingdom
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Things are changing after some recent experiences and time on here, I am more switch. While I still like being bossed around by women. Boys are fun to play with and boss around. Especially interested in guys into cuckolding.

I have a very average job and come from a very average family. I have lived most of my life without kink. Recently a major relationship ended for me and I have been thinking about what I want to do with my life in the future.

I remember time at university where I had a friend who was far more outgoing and confident than me. She used to lend me clothes, dress me up and take me out. I loved this and loved her, I was submissive to her even though I did not know anything of BDSM at that time.

So, what I am looking for is to revisit that period of wicked pleasure in my life through a Domme who may dress me up and encourage me to be more outgoing, make me more confident and look after me. It does not have to be sexual but I am bisexual and would enjoy this side of a relationship should it eventuate.

I own and wear very dull clothes and love the idea of being clothed in fetish wear. Additionally, part of what I like, is wearing other peoples clothes, it makes me feel like I am their property and that I should be subservient to them for lending me their clothes.

Also into bull bikers in a very BIG way











Last Online:


 Female Switch


 United Kingdom

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 5"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

A Poly Household

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Journal Entries:
3/12/2018 2:50:01 AM
moving and changing jobs so not on often at the moment :-(

2/19/2018 3:34:30 PM
A lot of people on here are in a rush, I am not.

The great thing about taking my time is if I dont log on for a week, I suddenly spot a few people I had been swapping messages with come up as


This user does not have an active profile

Those that stick around i can keep talking to, those that are inpatient are also gone.  Hopefully it narrows down the stock slightly.

2/13/2018 2:51:18 AM
Thought for this week is older men and bikers.

Love bikes and bikers, havent been on the back of too many bikes but it feels great, so submissive too as the rider has control and we are all in leather.

Have been seeing a few older gentlemen, looking for a bull type.  Wow I had not been with older guys before and really enjoying the age gap.

12/28/2017 6:24:29 PM
Been watching a lot of programs like Doomsday bunkers, would love to live in the states.  Love the attitude and would love to own a gun.

9/17/2017 5:59:32 AM
Experience on the other side of Cuckolding.

Met a Dominant guy with a inexperienced skinny submissive.  He didnt want a 3some, he wanted another woman to fuck him in front of his partner, he wanted his sub to know she was more experience and had bigger boobs.  Was interesting and great sex.  At the end he went down on me, he has never and will never go down on her.  The pained look on her face was priceless.

7/3/2017 3:17:14 AM
Guys dating on here is like going for a job.  You send off the CV, if the job you are applying for has hundreds of applicants you don't stand a chance.

Most girls no matter how quickly they can read the messages there will always be another one appearing on here.

I prefer girls, they come first, then couples, then local friendly guys.  Get in line and don't be a bitch if you get forgotten.  I can get sex if i want it, I want specific things now, I'm not desperate or in a hurry.

If you are a whiny bitch you get blocked, if you are polite and patient I might come back to you.  Its like when you go for a job and don't get it, but the employer remembers the 2nd choice.

I have been called a faker a couple of times, I don't think it reflects badly on me, just the tactics used by some desperate people to insult or try to control other people on here.  It won't motivate me to do anything positive, just ignore you and move on.

7/3/2017 1:22:38 AM
So still have a big interesting in cuckolding.  But must admit I am curious now about cuck queening as well (what is a female version of the bull?) would love to make love to a man while his sub partner watches.

7/3/2017 1:14:44 AM
both my confidence and sex drive is up at the moment, have had a number of partners over the last few weeks.

5/3/2017 9:43:32 AM
So I mentioned the male friend who I am on and off with.  I went to a work thing with him, ended up going home with one of his work mates :-)

3/8/2017 1:16:24 PM
A Dominant man, we met, I didn't say no, the Domination was good the sex was poor.  The same day I met up with a guy who isn't in the scene but kinda desperate, so I guess we could call him sub.  More things happened.

So a first for me, two men in one day, which considering I mostly think about women was interesting, but very fun.  Liked being sexy and slutty, the subby guy went down on me and I had not even showered.  He did not mind sharing me at all and I really liked that.

2/1/2017 8:28:50 AM
Experiencing being more Dominant

Being a female on here, I get more messages than some and have been chatting to a few subs, while I am not generally Dominant, I do like the idea of a sub boyfriend.

Had a couple of experiences with guys and found I can take control with some.

Must admit I quite like the idea of having a cuck.

Being looked after at home but being able to let my hair down as well.

12/6/2016 8:42:53 AM
Inspired by a wet dream.  I fancy my ex boyfriends boss and his wife, they are older, more confident and more dominant than I could ever dream to be.

Office outing

It was late at the office party, we had been out for a while, I was dating one of the guys my own age on and off and most of the group knew it.  They also knew he wasn't even looking at me tonight, his eyes were on his bosses wife, 20 years older, but far sexier than I was.  She was in a leather skirt and high heels and looked like she should be in a movie.  I fancied her myself, part wanted to be with her, part wanted to be her.

I went to the toilet to collect my thoughts.  A moment later she was there, chatting to me, being friendly, smiling and touching me.  Without asking she adjusted my bra and dress to show my boobs more, complimenting my chest.  She said she was jealous of my bigger boobs.  I let her and smiled like I was in a trance.  We went to a separate part of the bar, just the two of us, she ordered a bottle of wine and made sure I drank most of it.  We gossiped and talked and I could not keep my eyes off her.

She was telling me to forget my loser ex and have fun, that I needed to relax and have fun.  At this point she got out her lipstick and applied it to my lips, I was quivering with excitement.  Our lips met and it was the most amazing kiss ever.  While we were kissing 2 strong arms reached around and cupped my breasts, I could feel his hardness.  She then whispered in my ear "are you ready for a real man and his wife?" 

12/6/2016 7:58:32 AM
I keep coming on here and leaving, I don't often have free time to be online, so end up on here when I am not sleeping and horny.

Being submissive means I find it hard to say no, which means I keep going back to exs or dating vanilla guys.  I want to break the cycle but at the moment I am not very reliable.

5/16/2016 9:22:58 AM
It's a shame my journal has mostly been used for moaning.  My plan is to start writing a bit of short fiction around the things I like.  Its a creative outlet but will also give people a better idea of what I am about.

5/16/2016 9:16:37 AM
changed my profile to lesbian, hopefully will get less messages now.

2/5/2015 5:28:56 AM
Why I am ideally looking for women at the moment

Appearance, I find women more attractive, they interest me more.
Depth, they want to talk and are more interesting
Patience, they do not want me to magically appear or submit right away
Eloquent and polite, they are generally better mannered

However I still seem to get messages from male Dominants with empty profiles and no pictures asking to talk.  Now I have spoken to a number of men on here, but you have to have a genuine profile and something I want to talk about.  Not just a demand to chat, or a single line of message on here.

11/25/2014 6:16:27 AM
Demanding pushy people really put me off.  I signed on the other day and a couple of people got all demanding and I had to sign off.  This is new for me and very big and I am very shy.  It has to be baby steps for me and it has to be slow.  
If you want someone to send you pictures after a few message or to meet, that really is not me, so stop asking.

11/13/2014 2:09:59 PM
got a pic?

That is an example of the messages I have been getting.  It was from a male dominant, which I am not looking for.  But also he did not have a picture up, dominant or not that to me is double standards.

I work on a computer, I generally only use my phone which doesn't work for this site.  So when I do fire up the old desktop computer it is not that often.  So please bear with me as I work through the messages I get.

10/27/2014 1:34:28 AM
Day 2, so many messages, I seem to get one for every message I delete, so It is hard to keep up.  Thanks to Pedalpower for helping me tweak my profile.

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