Vanilla on the outside, but strictly D's on the inside. I am looking for friends and possibly more that enjoy the lifestyle and are looking to learn more. I am into the whole package as far as the emotional, mental, and physical aspects of the D's dynamic and not just the physical. I have been involved in the lifestyle for around 10 years off an on and still have more to learn. I am most interested in females with some experience, but I can be just as interested in ones with no experience if they have the desire to learn. Although I enjoy the lifestyle very much, I still like to live the vanilla life too, so I don't wish to waste anyone's time that is looking for 24/7 or being kept in a cage. Nothing against that, just I can not offer that and be happy nor will you. I am here to teach, guide, and build one's self-esteem while still having a fun, playful, and pleasing relationship. If you are interested, just send me a message....I don't bit. I am not into beating, bruising, blood, shit, pee, animals and things of the sort. I am a firm believer in sensual and erotic moments and try everything in my power to keep everything mutually pleasing. The photo's I have posted are 2 years old and I do have updated ones available upon request. I am very open to people from many areas and I try my best to be accommodating as far as online/phone and of course in person time. Please don’t be afraid to message me and ask any and all questions.