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Pan Female Slave, 51,  New York
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SweetSlave63 - slave

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Friends:
misterdeecountryrpcSirReign44

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First of all, before I get into what I desire, I need to let you know I am a widow. I am also the single mother of two older teen girls, who are, although they know some about my preference, not part of the lifestyle. I have had repeated questions as to my girls so let me state it clearly and succinctly because apparently too many of you are getting confused. MY GIRLS ARE NOT IN THE LIFESTYLE, THEY APPEAR TO SHOW NO INTEREST AND I WILL NOT FORCE MY DESIRES & LIKES ON THEM EVER!! They are mine though and so we are a package deal (read this as they still live at home and shall continue until they are ready to go.) Recently I have been doing a lot of thinking and I am no longer sure of where I want to be in a BDSM relationship. I enjoy serving, I love to please my Master. I get great satisfaction of out doing a job well. Knowing Master is happy is what I truly live for. I enjoy some pain, some rope with bondage and toys are fun, but to me D/s or M/s are much more than sex and kink, therefore it is not all that I seek. I love to please because it is when I please that I got pleasure. Have a wonderful day. Sweet

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 SweetSlave63

 Female Slave

 New York

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 7"

 300 lbs

 51

 Pan

 Caucasian

 08/24/07

 

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

 Lives For:

 Breast Play

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Web Surfing (Expert)

 Singing (Expert)

 Loves:

 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera

 Museums (Expert)

 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires

 Volunteerism (Expert)

 Walking

 Blindfolds

 Bondage

 Foot Worship (Beginner)

 Housework Service (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial

 Serving as a Maid (Beginner)

 Spanking

 Tickling (Beginner)

 Uniforms (Beginner)

 Vibrators

 Wax play

 Board Games

 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies (Expert)

 Puzzle Games

 Astronomy

 Biology

 Blogging

 History (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)

 Mathematics

 Nutrition

 Poetry (Expert)

 Psychology (Expert)

 Writing

 Polyamory (Beginner)

 Americana

 Blue Grass

 Blues

 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Folk Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Jazz

 Nineties Music

 Oldies

 Opera Music

 Operetta

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music

 R&B

 Reggae

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes

 Christianity

 Likes:

 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining (Beginner)

 Flea Markets (Beginner)

 Travel

 Camping

 Dancing

 Hiking (Beginner)

 Begging (Beginner)

 Body Worship (Beginner)

 Collars (Beginner)

 Corner Time (Beginner)

 Corsets (Beginner)

 Exhibitionism (Beginner)

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Gags (Beginner)

 Hair Pulling

 Leashes (Beginner)

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation

 Stockings

 Watersports

 Chess

 True Crime

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Archaeology

 Chemistry

 Philosophy

 Tolerates:

 Mental Bondage

 Curious About:

 Cages (Beginner)

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Fisting (Beginner)

 Masks (Wearing) (Beginner)

 Munches (Beginner)

 Public Play

 Shibari

 Strap-Ons (Beginner)

 Suspension (Beginner)

 1950s Lifestyle

 Diet and Exercise

 Gorean Lifestyle (Beginner)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Beginner)

 Victorianism

 Dislikes:

 Beachcombing

 Clubbing

 Shopping

 Dilation

 Domestic Servants

 Objectification (Beginner)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 Rap

 Hates:

 Bar Hopping

 Hunting

 Anal Play (Beginner)

 Fire Play

 Humiliation

 Needle Play

 Whips

 Hard Limits:

 Canes and Crops

 Diapers

 Enemas

 Knife Play

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Journal Entries:
2/1/2015 10:04:36 AM
Here I am again bemoaning a fact that I really did not want to think about.  So many negative comments about that recent journal entry.  I just don't see the problem.  I am not trying to control ANYTHING except my own safety and as a US citizen I have that right.  It does not make me less of a sub or slave, it makes me wise and NOT a doormat for someone else. As I said in the former post I was hurt, raped, beaten and had my nose broken when I made the mistake of a first meet in a private place.  End of story, it wont happen again.  If you are thinking I am on some power trip, buzz off, I want the man to be in charge, thus the fact that I choose a slave life.  It is unfortunate that I needed to move so far away from the good man I had found after that incident but I had no choice and I have been up here 5 years and cannot seem to find anyone.  I do not think I am wrong or demanding, after we meet, the next time, if we are both "feeling it,"  I have no problem beginning a relationship in earnest.  It is who I am, who I choose to be and how I choose to live my life.  So before you go to send more and more nasty mail, please take time read, try to understand where I am coming from and why because of past events I must put safety first, then service.

1/30/2015 6:48:18 AM
Good morning,
So I was chatting with a potential Master on another site.  He wanted to meet, I have some first meet rules for safety that I did not think were wrong.  The man insisted on meeting alone in a semi dark place.  My rules are simple, public place, safety call upon arrival and no need for any BDSM at first meet.  This man wanted to meet on my birthday, and had me call him when I explained what I needed for a first meet and why I needed it.  I was told I am not a sub or slave and I am demanding.  He said, can't we just pretend we already had a first meet, in my head red flags were raging.  Shouldn't a Master have enough control of himself to handle a first meet with some safety ground rules?  I do not understand, I even explained how I got very hurt by someone who I did not have those rules with and that is how it came to be. He let me know he expected a blow job at the very least and again the red flags were raging.  Every time I said anything I got defensive and felt like less of a person, I almost gave in but in my head I know I am right I just wish ALL Masters could understand and be appreciative of a slave who has safety rules. Someday I will be able to write some happy news here, please.
Sweet



3/25/2014 3:17:55 AM

I hate that I only post here when things go wrong but it seems the need to know, needs to know.  I was actually having some of what I thought were good conversations with "gatorhater" and alleged switch who was also sadly a widower.  Poof he disappeared off the site as if he never existed.  Hmmmm, makes one wonder if there are any real human beings out there other than myself.  Heavy sigh, someday I know I will find the one.

Sweet


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