What to say.....hmmmm.....I'm not very good with these. I'm kinda on the shy side. I love 80's "hair" bands (Poison, Skid Row, Def Leppard etc). I am a sub but prefer the softer end of things. (Nothing too harsh or painful.) There are a few things I won't do. What else can I say? Well, if you want to know, just ask.