I am a beginner who is seeking a LTR and can't seem to find anyone who can hold my interest/excite/stimulate me by looking in all the usual places. This may or may not be the place for me- I am not into all aspects of B&D; I just know that I crave a relationship that encompasses some of them! I am looking for a gentle, loving dom who is willing to go slow, who wants to take time to get to know (and respect!) me first-yes, I am aware of what a tall order that is! I prefer an intelligent, well-read man with a good sense of humor.