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I did have a profile a long while ago but haven't used it in such a long time it's more appropriate that I create a new one. I will add as time passes by ... Well, as you can see - I'm 38 and based just in North East Wales. I've been interested in the BDSM lifestyle for quite a number of years now and have had experiences both online and more importantly, in real life. I'm naturally laid back but self assured, I know what I like and how I like it! For me, what I want to see in someone is: - the willingness to put effort into what she does - dedication to get it right - realistic enough to know that life isn't like a cup of instant coffee (it takes time to build a relationship) - understands that the instant "kneel now bitch" isn't for me, it's too much like roleplay to be real (not that I'm not demanding I just express myself as a human being instead of a fantasy character for the most part!). I'm naturally caring so many may feel I'm best suited to "daddy dom" dynamics although I prefer not to be pigeon-holed as such. Anthing else you'd like to know, get in touch! Regards, SweetPickle (tastey with a bit of bite!)
8/14/2011 6:48:37 PM

I may be classed as a Dom but that doesn't mean I have to be rude and have a potty mouth. First of all ... I'm me.

8/9/2011 3:20:24 PM

Well, thought I'd add something in here.

One of life's mysteries to me is the frustrations people have when looking for their perfect partner. For me, looking for something in frustration always seems to result in missing the exact same thing you're looking for.

I'm not so sure there is such a thing as a perfect partner and wonder if people miss out on new experiences based purely on what they consider to be the essential elements of perfection. The point about perfection is that is needs very little work - an already made ying to your yang. Where's the fun in finding out the not-so-perfect is far more fun after all? Without a little irritant, they oyster would produce nothing of value don't you think?

Or is it just me?!

ilike2bespanked
 
 Age: 34
 O-town, Florida