Life is what it is. Only we can make it an adventure!
I am a female switch. A simple word that seems to cause so much controversy. I don’t "play" at who I am. I have the heart of a slave and the spirit of a Dominant.
I have learned to embrace and live in both worlds.
If you are interested send me an email and I will be happy to explain how this works for me.
I am a part of a poly family that has taken me in and allowed me to be comfortable in myself.
BDSM isn’t a "lifestyle" for me. It is just the way I live. The play aspects of BDSM are awesome and I am an EXTREME player. But I consider play just that "play". A form of entertainment that enhances the way I live.
My ideals rarely fit into the "norm" and that is alright with me. It allows me to be more open minded about peoples difference and more excepting about those difference.
I detest mind games that are not consensual And a dishonest person has little chance of survival in my world.
I am an artist. This includes many medias. I still make pictures in the clouds.
I love walking in the rain and the sound of the ocean waves stirs excitment in me that is hard to explain.
One of my favorite pass times is "people" not being with them but around them. I study human nature. I watch, I listen and I learn.
Human nature is a great mystery to most. But for me it is like playing with a puzzle. Watching the pieces pushing against each other trying to fit in. Some fit, some don't. Some get broke and some belong in other boxes. Yep human nature is a great pass time.
Knowing human nature the way I do makes me sad sometimes though. I makes me feel as if my dreams of being "owned" unreachable.
It will take a very special Dominate to be able to take me without their ego being master. One that understands taking a body is a easy task. But taking a soul and mind is the real prize.
One that understand "poly" is the ability to love more than one person at a time. Not a ticket for an orgy.
One that understands "sex" is not a relationship. Relationship are built with time and commitment.
One that understands I can be molded but my spirit can never be broken.
One that understands if they need to take me down emotionally they better be able to put me back together.
One the isn't intimidated by my strength but will know how to use it for the betterment of all.
One that knows how to talk from their heart, to expose themselves the same way they expect me too.
A beautiful dream but maybe it has to remain only a dream.