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Let me start by saying, if you dont have a profile pic of yourself or attached to your message, I will not respond, no exceptions. Im putting myself out there and I expect you to do the same.
Im seeking a long term relationship with an experienced Dom who is also fair and respects my limits. Id love to meet a man interested in something deeper and more special than just a hookup. I prefer someone within a reasonable driving distance (2 hours) who is available, emotionally and physically, for a steady, monogamous relationship. Preferred age range Id say 45-65 or anything close.
I identify as submissive. I am not interested in switching. Ive not a dominant bone in my body when it comes to menrelationshipssex, and really desire a man who takes charge. I want to be pursued, courted, preyed upon, and taken. I am not turned on by a man that asks permission, however I do expect common courtesy and respect of my limits...the right man will know the difference and where to draw that oh so fragile line. I yearn to find a man of honor, integrity and character to serve and please. I like to feel vulnerable and yet protected at the same time in a mans arms. At the same time I want a partner, someone who is on my team and wants the best for ME and for US, and if I get that, I will easily reciprocate.
I would like a relationship that is comfortable and fun but still genuinely Ds. My idea of a Ds relationship is not one where you walk on eggshells at all times for fear of being punished. But rather, one where we serve one another wholeheartedly in our roles and enjoy ourselves and what we have along the way.
I have a lot to offer the right Dom. I am intelligent, attractive and fit. I like to have fun. I like relationships and make a great girlfriend. I can be a heavy player after getting to know you, feeling comfortable with you, earning each others trust, and having no doubts that you will respect my limits and play fair.
I want a man who not only wants, but needs to be in charge, and in return have a great girl standing by his side supporting him in every way possible. I love the mental power exchange and my ultimate goal is to find a monogamous long term relationship with a great man first and foremost, but also a man who identifies as a Dom who seeks to live a Ds lifestyle inside and (sometimes) outside of the bedroom when appropriate.
Here is a little about me aside from the submissive part....
I am thoughtful, friendly, empathetic, gracious, and have a good sense of humor....I try to always find the best in people. I love making new friends and getting to know them. When I become close to someone, I hold them in high regard and become very attached. Im a very private person but can also be brutally honest with someone I trust.
I enjoy the simple things in life. I love hanging out at Barnes and Noble with a cup of coffee and a good book, visiting flea markets and antique stores, consignment shops (basically i love the thrill of the hunt and finding that special unique treasure), lunching with friends....I also love to dance when I get the chance....i also find immense pleasure in relaxing at home in my robe with a good book or movie, I am never lonely around myself and enjoy my own company.
Im not into sports but can enjoy going to a Phillies game every now and then......I prefer someone less sports oriented and more artsy or musical. I love going to concerts, whether its rock and roll, The Philadelphia Orchestra, musicals, the opera or whatever. If you love sports its not a deal breaker though, just has to be the right fit. I like visiting new restaurants, esp. little known holes in the wall, art galleries, and I enjoy decorating, refinishing furniture, any kind of craft or art related activity, dancing, and dare i say...reality tv lol.
Im very sensitive and romantic. I like all that old fashioned stuff that seems to have gone by the wayside. I love when a man opens my car door, or helps me with my coat. A chivalrous man stands out from all the rest! Wish more men cared about that. I love romantic dinners by candlelight, taking walks and holding hands, drinking coffee in our robes.
I am looking for a monogamous relationship with one man who desires to live the lifestyle but is also a great match for me in the vanilla world as well.
I love a man who has many interests, or at least has one thing he loves... and a man who likes to learn new things. A man who has a fairly healthy lifestyle, likes to work out, but isnt a gym rat, prefers to eat healthily....I also love great conversation and appreciate a man who can hold an intelligent conversation and can also be a good listener. Intelligence is crazy sexy to me, it goes a much longer way than looks. I love a man who likes to laugh.... I have a very dry sense of humor, can be quite sarcastic, but in a good way.... and really love a good belly laugh. Some other qualities I adore are confidence, kindness, and down and dirty honesty. A man who wears his heart on his sleeve will capture my heart, I am not a game player! I hate games. Im a pretty deep person at times but I also like to get really silly with someone, so a man who can be both serious and silly is a huge turn on. When the right guy comes along, I will make room for him in my life.
Lastly, I was given the gift of HSV2 (herpes) by an ex boyfriend who knowingly passed it to me so I wanted to disclose it right on my profile. Its not something that affects my life at all, and its more than common enough to include here for the sake of honesty. So far Ive gotten many me toos! So if you liked my profile andor you have it in common with me (among other things of course), Id love to hear from you. If youd like to learn more about herpes, you can check out projectaccept.org among many other sites.
I own the Fetlife group Northeast Herpes and Kink, for members who have herpes and live in Pa, NJ, NY, MD or DE. Look it up if youd like to join. Its a new group so it may take a couple years to grow in size and become active. Right now, its kinda dead, lol.
I also admin a BDSM group of about 500 people on Facebook. Its only for people with herpes or HPV, and we discuss everything BDSM related and learn more about the lifestyle from each other. Message me if you are interested in joining this group.
100 Submissive
100 Brat
100 Rope bunny
99 Masochist
99 Slave
97 Degradee
72 Experimentalist
61 Primal (Prey)
50 Non-monogamist
45 Voyeur
44 Pet
43 Vanilla
37 Exhibitionist
11 Ageplayer
0 GirlBoy
0 Switch
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