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	A little about me.... I am here looking for friends. I have made some changes in my life this year. And would like to continue to explore the doors that are now open. This doesn't not mean I want a hook-up! Those are unfulfilling to me. I do enjoy meeting like-minded people. Until the last few years, I never thought of my likes as kinks. They were and are a way of enjoy spending time together with someone I care about. At an early age I was blessed with the understanding of how deep a relationship can be. I will always cherish these memories as a gift of love. I am not looking for someone to replace his memory for no one can. But I do hunger for the type of relationship we had. Very open communication, the love and caring that comes from such a union. The ability to explore what may come to mind without any emotional draw-backs. In the day to day life I am making many changes. As I was a homemaker for over 13 years. Living in the country had it's good times. Now, I am living back in town and adjusting life as so. I do have a health issue which complicates things for some. I have a type of seizures that the doctors have not found a reason for. I would be willing to explain more elsewhere. For the most part it does not affect my living. I can be a very private person, shy at times because I wish to learn. I feel that respect is a two way street. You start out with a little when first meeting and grow from there. Your actions will show your worth. I apologize to any that feel I should call them master because it is in their screen-name. I will be glad to address you by your full screen-name. But you are not "my" Master. And thus do not deserve such title from me. This lifestyle is not a game to me. I do not choose to play with the emotions of others. Or have mine played with. I try to be very polite to all. If I am pushed or the understanding is not received I will be more vocal about the intent. I do not wish to be as such. But have found that rudeness is just plain out to much drama. Life is a beautiful thing. I want to enjoy it. I will update/ add to this profile in time. I hope it will give you some insight of who I am. If you would like to chat please feel free to drop me a note. Blessings be with you and yours A little update.... 05/16/2013 While I have been enjoying this site for a time now. It still amazes me as to how many can not read and understand what is plainly wrote. I have enjoyed the friendships that have/are forming. Some people can read! LOL While some things in my life have changed, some have not. I am not ready to submit to any man. If you want to think of me as a flake/fake then by all means think what you like. I am enjoying what is at this time. Yes, it can be lonely at times when I crawl into bed and there is no lover there. But does not mean I am ready to share my bed! When I decided to take a mate then it will be what we choose. The man that will win my attention will be proud of what is his. As I will be proud of whom I will be with. Respect what is given and the world shall be laid at thy feet. This goes both ways for those that are Dominant and also a submissive. I do have traits that many would call me a switch because of them. I do not think of myself as such. Yes, I have had a submissive or two in my life, both male and female. That is just how it was with them. I feel we each have dominant traits in different aspect of our lives. May it be washing dishes to the tender care of another. Or the more "masculine" role of repairing a car or moving a heavy item. I find that many proclaimed "Dom's" are just men that wish to be greedy and self absorbed. I wish them all the best of luck in finding what they want. Even if it is for a short while. For a good Dominant will have learned that to stay in control is a give and take. An exchange that is ever growing between the two involved. Building with/upon each other for a common goal. Well, I guess this is more of a rant than an update. But as I said somethings have changed and yet others are the same. I still live in town with my animal pets. I tend to the daily need of life. I am meeting some wonderful people. And exchanging ideas, learning new ways/kinks. Enjoying live and what it has to offer. I wish each of you a blessed day. ~Ivy~

10/31/2013 4:16:20 AM

Okay so I have thought about something off an on for years. And tonight it stuck in my head ...

The subject is crying after having and orgasm. (And before any of you jump the gun "per se`" I know it has to do the endorphin's/subdrop...ect). But no one can point me in the direction of which endorphin, the name, that contributes to this action/reaction.

Research online can be very helpful. But I have come to a block in finding the name needed to continue my research.

I find that there are many people that are quick to explain it is endorphin's being release. I also find that, they do not even understand that we have different endorphin's. The last time I looked it up there are at least 20 different endorphin's.

While the simple answer is good at times. This is one subject I find interesting and wish to know more. So a simple answer just does not feed my hunger for understand.

11/25/2011 6:18:03 PM

If you do not have the intelligence

to read my profile and respect my wishes ......

Then you do NOT have the intelligence

for me to bow down to.

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Berlin, Germany