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****Currently NOT seeking**** I am here for one person and one person only. and it probably isnt you. do not think that because i speak my mind or because i do not call you sir or Master that it means i am not submissive, you are just not the dominant for me. i have found my one and soon i will be with him http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RY_NQZyBc3g

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7/12/2012 1:25:25 AM

A video for how i have felt the last few weeks. i think it says alot as to the way some people can make others feel

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZ_GgOysu6o


5/26/2012 5:34:39 PM

Humility (adjectival form

: humble) is the quality of being modest and respectful. Humility, in various interpretations, is widely seen as a virtue

in many religious and philosophical traditions, being connected with notions of egolessness

 

 

Humiliation (also called stultification) is the abasement of pride

, which creates mortification or leads to a state of being humbled

or reduced to lowliness or submission

. It can be brought about through bullying

, intimidation

, physical or mental mistreatment

or trickery, or by embarrassment

if a person is revealed to have committed a socially or legally unacceptable act. Whereas humility

can be sought alone as a means to de-emphasise the ego, humiliation must involve other person(s), though not necessarily directly or willingly. Acting to humiliate yourself may be linked to a personal belief (as with mortification

of the flesh, with some religions), or it can be part of erotic humiliation

where the belittling activity provides emotional and/or sexual arousal or heightened sensation.

 

i think too many people get those  two words confused. so there it is, just to straighten them out


5/26/2012 2:27:51 PM

LMFAO

 

 

Subs & Slaves pay attention:

 

 

 

If you decide to contact me or reply to one of my emails I expect a few simple things as a matter of courtesy. Include you name. Include an IM id in case I decide I would like to chat with you. Include your relationship/ collared status and your level of experience

 

the above was taken f rom a profile as i was browsing. . not wanting very much and apparently thinks this is all about him.

 

in my opinion, and my 16+ years of experience in the lifestyle, i have learned that ANY relationship is more of a partnership, and without one there cannot be the other. so think about that

 


5/24/2012 7:58:22 PM

OK. Another ranting session for me. this is to address all you superficial, only caring about what's on the outside and not caring about what's on the inside people.

 

you all claim to want a submissive or a slave. someone who can take what ever it is you think you can offer and more. well here's what i have learned, those seeking "friends" do not want friends, they want a fuck buddy, those seeking a submissive or a slave that can take what you have to offer and more aor NOT truly seeking a slave or a submissive, but rather, you are in fact seeking a piece of eye candy. someone who couldnt take a good ass  beating if her life depended on and you really couldnt offer one either. not to some skinny, prpetty little "THING"

 

You all think that a thick girl cannot be beautiful, but really, we have the best hearts. WE are the ones who love, who care about ANYthing  other than ourselves, and we are the ones who truly hurt. you all think that because we are thick, big, or fat that we are less than human, but i am here to tell you right here and now WE are better than you. we, or maybe i should say I do not judge people on how they look. the reason being is because i know how that feels. to be a genuine person a genuine SUBMISSIVE and to be over looked because of how i look.

 

You people out there who judge me because i am a thick girl can all kiss my lilly white ass. i am tired of you people. i am tired of people saying one thing then turning around and doing something totally opposite. and for all you who are seeking a REAL anything but over look the most real of us, you can all kiss my ass too


4/25/2012 6:03:33 PM

I have noticed that all these Doms never smile in their pictures. why is this? do you really believe that you will not be taken seriously as a dom? or are you so into your own self that you cannot find humor or anything to smile about in this life?


4/16/2012 10:32:52 PM

A teacher is explaining biology to her 4th grade students. "Human beings are the only animals that stutter," she says..
 
 A little girl raises her hand. "I had a kitty-cat who stuttered." The teacher, knowing how precious some of these stories could become, asked the girl to describe the incident.
 
 ‘Well', she began, 'I was in the back yard with my kitty and the rottweiler that lives next door got a running start and before we knew it, he jumped over the fence into our yard!'
 
 'That must've been scary,' said the teacher. 'It sure was,' said the little girl. 'My kitty raised her back, went "Ffffff!, Ffffff!, FfffffF," but before she could say 'Fuck!,'  the Rottweiler ate her !!!!!!!
 
 The teacher had to leave the room.    


2/15/2012 10:13:15 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NKg3n5Ilzvs&feature=fvst

 

Nuff Said


2/3/2012 6:54:22 PM

 I had been conquered and enraptured, desroyed and renewed, rent in fragments and made whole, freed and enslaved, broken and created.  And , in the end, overwhelmed, struggling to comprehend, I had found myself more a slave than ever. 


1/15/2012 8:01:36 PM

ok so profile perving today i read this "I find a lack of an open mind to hinder effective communication." in a journal of a "Dominant" man. that was in the very bottom journal post so it would have been an earlier entry. but reading backwards from newest to earliest, i have to say that the lack of an open mind is what has happened to him. it makes me wonder if people really cannot see the effect that their words have on others, or if they just do not care.


1/14/2012 10:35:05 PM

After much consideration and talking to a few people on here who i have come to think of as friends, i have decided that it is time i write in my journal again.  i will start off by saying this: This is my Journal. i will write what i want, when i want. that is the purpose of a journal. to get out on "paper" and into words, the feelings and thought that are bombarding me.

 

Second, if you have a problem with what i say in my journal, you have options.

A) DONT FUCKING READ IT!!! or

B) suck it up ya big baby, and move on.

 

What are the other options? you may be asking yourself. well sure, there are other options, like writing a hateful, judgemental and negative email, in which case, i have options. i can either

A) suck it up and get over it or..

B) i can respond in a likewise negative and hateful email or...

C) i can block your whiny ass after having a good laugh

 

Now, if you are not offended and have read this far, i will explain a little further the reason i posted my last entry about not writing any more. see, i, like so many people who are REAL, tend to have a large heart that i wear on my sleeve. and wearing a heart out on your sleeve is a dangerous thing. sleeves do not protect hearts, they do not stop feelings from getting hurt and basically, they are useless for anything more than pinning a heart on. So there it is. i will no longer apologise for your lack of intelligence, or sense of diplomacy. i will not apologise if you cannot handle the fact that i have a brain, or that i have a back bone. i am NOT your fucking doormat, i am NOT your slut, toy, fuckhole, worthless piece of meat. i will NOT allow you to abuse me, to bring me down with your negative and judgemental attitudes. i will however wish you a pleasant day and hope that you find exactly what you are looking for {#}

 


12/17/2011 4:29:11 PM

Judgement...

 

It would seem that too many here think they know someone because of a journal entry. when in all honesty a journal entry is somewhere for a sub or a slave, or really just anyone can get their feelings down  in a manner that is healthy and safe. well that is not true here, as i have found out. so thanks to all the messages i have gotten telling me how i am not a true slave because like most human beings i have had a bad day, or something i have read has upset me, i will no longer post another word.


12/9/2011 9:58:42 AM

WOOHOOO!!! i found my topic for today

 

As i have flipped through profile and just had to shake my head at alot of them, i have noticed. far too many people  put into their profile that they are into the real. and don't be fake, and that they do not do online stuff because it is not real. *rolls her eyes  and shakes her head* Well i am going to pose this question to all of you out there. but please, do NOT message me with bullshit answers, it will only serve in pissing me off and getting you blocked.

 

What exactly about the whole online relationship in D/s  is not real? could it possibly be the fact that both in real time and online  the lifestyle is predominantly a mental and emotional  thing? or maybe it's the fact that you people who put that in their profiles do not have the mental capacity to keep a woman's interest for more than the 6 minutes it takes you to whack her a couple of times with a flogger, call her unspeakable names and screw her. *shrugs* i dont know. maybe it's me, but i prefer to have my mind stimulated and my heart touched before you ever get close enough to me to do physical harm.

 

 


12/8/2011 10:03:35 AM

You know. i would really like to put something profound here, but for the life of me, i have no clue what to put. so i will just ramble a little. there is so much in this life that people  do and say and think. i cannot say wether it is right or wrong, i can only ever offer my opinion. try not to judge those people who do things that i may not agree with, or fully understand. like those who are here strictly to watch someone on their cam  when pornos are so readily available literally EVERYwhere. i dont know. maybe it's me. but i do not understand what the attraction is. to sit and watch someone you never plan on meeting, doing something that you could be out doing with someone else, and knowing that the one they are watching is probably thinking of someone else completely. i also do not understand why people want to ask for pictures then sit in judgement of the person that sent them a picture. i really do not understand what joy it could possibly bring to anyone to run down, insult, belittle or objectify someone else. nor do i understand someone who wants all of that.  to me, it is depressing. and when people, or what society deems as the "normal" person gets depressed, is forced to remain depressed for long periods of time and without any sight of hope in the future that someone could remotely care about them, it would be safe to assume, though i am not sure assuming is ever really safe, but it would be safe to assume that the depression would consume them and make them wish to end it all.

 

When someone is told over and over that they are not good enough. that they are worthless little pieces of shit not worthy of love, it begins to effect the mind, the body, the heart and soul. i mean really, is it too hard for even the most sadistic of bastards to look at someone who has  given so much of themselves to them and say "you really are a wonderful slave. or i love you. or even thank you for putting up with my pathetic ass and all of my kinks?


12/6/2011 12:17:10 PM

A New Day

 

 

After ranting the last couple of days, i decided to sit down and think about some things.  Things like what being a sub  or a slave means to me.  And what, in my own opinion, makes a good Master. Now alot of people will wonder what gives a slave the right to decide what makes a good Master, and i do realize that it is their right to wonder, but this is my journal, this is my life, and this is who i am.

 

what makes a good slave/sub is this, in my opinion. To listen, understanding and obeying, sometimes without question. No one is perfect and we all question things, it is our nature and PART of what makes us all human.  When we do question, though. it has to be done the right way. and please understand, that if i question a Master or my Master, it's not because i do not trust him. it's because at that point, i need to be reassured that He does have my best interest in mind. Having said that, i believe that a Master should answer the questions put to Him. not with "because i said"  or "because i am a Master and you will do what i say" i mean really, think back to when you were a kid, and You wanted to do something. when You whined at Your mom and dad "but whyyyyy" and stomped your f oot, because they said "because i said so" was that answer really good enough for you, or did it make you mad?

 

I also believe what makes a good sub/slave is their heart. a willingness to put someone else's needs before their own, someone else's happpiness before their own. This is something that gives us as slaves the strength to kneel before another and submit to them. and believe me, submission is not something that can truly be forced or  taken from someone. it is a gift of the heart. to allow someone the power over them completely. Mind, body, spirit and heart. and not necassarily in that order. oor at least not with me.  and along with heart, a slave has to trust his/her Master/Misitress. without  that and communication, there really isnt anything.

 

now, on the other side of the same coin, a good Master or Mistress, will listen to their sub/slave. not just nod and hear to hear someone again, in my own humble opinion,  is not worth anything, but to listen and to acknowledge the fears, concerns, feelings or what have you of your slave, sub, pet... it can only bring them closer to you.  and when we do question you. answer the question. tell us why you want us to do something if we truly do not understand. and if you have to, after the answer, add on, "Because i am Master, and it's what i want"  but please, dont just say that and leave it at that


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littlecherie
 
 Age: 28
 Santa Ana, California