Yes, I'm still smoke free!! I don't miss it one bit! I'm so glad not to be a slave to Phillip Morris!

Now I'm concentrating on getting the rest of my life healthy. I spend a lot of time strolling the green markets and farmers markets in the area. I attempt to eat at least 75% raw vegan and want to get that number much higher. I'm not opposed to eating meat, I just have to know where it came from and what it ate before it got to the plate.

Life is too short to be serious all the time and not have fun. If you don't have a sense of humor, we won't get along one bit.

7 months smoke free still...food thing, not going so well but better than it was before. Thanks for all the words of encouragement to everyone that has commented and inquired!

100 smoke free days...take that Phillip Morris!!!    

Happy holidays to all my friends...sorry I haven't been around much. Got a little sick and found myself in the hospital. I'm allllll better now and have been a non-smoker for 34 days now. Some of those days were impossible (yes, I cheated a couple of times, but hey 33 years of habits and routines) some were barely tolerable, some I may have lost some friends and some were completely patchless and I didn't even notice! I feel great, better than I've felt in years!

I hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas and a safe and happy New Year.

I read this site on a daily basis. Sometimes I read profiles, sometimes just the forum posts. It seems everyone has their own opinion on the definition of a Dominant and of a submissive. Most begin with What Is? and is a list or description you find on other websites, so sometimes it's not even the person's opinion, it's someone else's! So here is/are my definition(s) of a Dominant:

The Yak-Yak Dom: This is the guy who hasn't a clue about anything other than the stuff they read. They want to talk about it, probably while sitting near naked in front of a computer screen pulling their pud. You will never meet this Dom.

The Spanker Dom: This is the guy who tells you they are dominant because they like to spank your ass during sex. They think it's kinky and makes them a part of an elite club. They probably belonged to the chess club.

The Big Lots Dom: This is the guy who is too ashamed to actually purchase real toys but will go to the store, at different intervals, and buy things like clothespins, candles and rope. They might even have an old ping pong paddle laying around, but prefer their brown belt they wear to work.

The Possesive Dom: This is the guy who tells you via email, usually after the first contact or so, that you are his and you have to remove yourself from being available or put that you belong to him in your profile. Granted you haven't even met him yet.

The One Hit Wonder Dom: This is the guy who puts the most effort into meeting someone. Says the right things, does the right things, wines and dines you, gets into your head. When you finally let him into your bed, you never hear from him again.

The Guilty Dom: This is the guy who secretly hates women but loves his mother. He will call you all kinds of names and likes rough sex because women are the lesser sex in his mind. He feels more manly during this but he always apologizes afterwards.

The Why I Oughta Dom: This is the guy who tells you what he's going to do to you. More than likely, he reads a lot of Penthouse Forum. This is a fantasy, he's more graphic and less scientific than the Yak Yak Dom.

The Chief Minipipi Dom: This is the guy who thinks that by claiming he's a Dom it will make up for the fact that he can no longer get a hard on or that his definition of "big cock" is the fattest chicken at Publix.

The Buy Dom: and no, it's not a typo, I did not mean Bi! This is the guy who wants you to buy him stuff because he's a Dom. He probably lives with his mom and if you go anywhere you have to pick him up.

The Midnight Dom: This is the guy who happened upon this website when he wasn't getting any play on onlinebootycall! He's not a dom and he'll tell you that. He's just looking for easy but he doesn't have to tell you that, it's obvious!

The Looker Dom: This is the guy who will look at your profile over and over but never even say hello. Gotta love the Who's Viewing Me feature!

The Boy Wonder Dom: This is the guy who is the epitome of Gen X. Young, dumb and full of ________ (you fill in the blank). They are usually arrogant and ignorant and feel you should submit because that's what they want.

The Ready Maid Dom: This is the guy who really just wants someone to pick his dirty underwear up off the floor and clean his house. If you can cook, that's a plus. Oh, and sex on demand, once you're done.

The Control Freak Dom: This is the guy who is so eager to control you it's scary. He usually has no job, no car, no visible means of support and is usually "in transition" aka sleeping on a friend's couch.

The Domignat: This is the guy who buzzes around you like a gnat, you can't shoo him away and he's just as annoying!!!

***Dickclaimer - any resemblance to any person, living or dead, is strictly coincidental. If you see yourself in any of these, well, it isn't so!***

Will a REAL Dominant please stand up!

If you're offended by this, it's all a joke! J-O-K-E. Buy a clue and a sense of humor!

This has been interesting. A lot of different views from people of all shapes, sizes and colors. I'm amazed at the amount of mail I get telling me my preference of a black man is "gross". The amount of hate in the world still astounds me. I find some of the things people are into "gross" as well, but I would never email them and say so. I would skip to the next profile if I was simply trolling profiles. As for the men who feel it's about the size of their dick, well, I hate to disappoint you, but it's not, so sorry! I won't be impressed by your pictures or claims to fame!