I have over 10 pages of messages here.   I cannot get to each and every one plus I have a job and a life.  I'm sorry that one or two of you are offended.  We could all do with a little patience in our lives.  My time is valuable you know.  I don't generally respond to time wasters here.  I will get to you, if you KEEP SHOWING UP MESSAGING ME, telling me a little about you.   if I feel we have significant goals and if you're profile is elaborate enough.  I'm taking my search incredibly seriously you know.  I'm not just going to choose ONE man after only being on this thing 3 days.

One thing they are very interested in is the intuitive nature I see mainly in Dom/Dommes and even some subs. They ask how did you know that? 

I believe its a sense that comes with what we call the lifestyle some stronger than others.

A vanilla man tries to become a Dom. I say you cant. Your either born with it or not. You can be a Top but not a Dom. I get so many questions from him why can I not get my wife to submit to me. Although she will submit to another, who is a Dom. I simply tell him because you are not a Dom nor will you ever be one. You are vanilla. I cannot become a pro quarter back no matter how much I learn your born with the talent or not. He does not understand what a submissive can feel when submitting nor a Dom when Dominating.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NJro7XSIMII