I wish people would realize that the title submissive isn't a synonym for toy or one you can use and put away when you feel like. We as submissive's have needs, wants and desires too. Most of which is to serve our Dom. When we are put away or pushed aside we feel like we are lost and unguided. 

Fake People. 

I am so completely sick of fake Doms. I mean.. seriously.. do you really feel the need to mess with a subbie's heart and mind? What exactly does it do for you? There is a difference between being a Dom and being a man who enjoys rough sex. You need to grow up and figure out the difference.  You know who you are... only you can change you. Work on it.