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Hetero Male Master, 48,  London, United Kingdom
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Last Online:


 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 5' 10"

 170 lbs





 14 minutes

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples








 Scuba Diving



NOTE I am often in the media and easy to find online - I will send photos to a girl who is a potential fit.

Men who hurt and punish others are small-minded idiots. They are insecure and have their own issues. They are not superior to others, they are damaged and take their failings and history out on others.

Im a very busy executive in Washington, DC. I cherish obedience. I am looking for a smart girl who needs a master to push her hard to be the best she can be. Must be reliable, nonsmoking, and smart. No bimbos, masochists, or door mats.

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Journal Entries:
9/11/2017 12:04:35 AM
I know a lot of girls here now. Many of them come on frequently, I see them online here all the time. They want to escape to a new life, to be taken away from their boring lives. But when I follow up with them months or even after a year, nothing has happened. This is just their escape, it's all in their minds, they have to way to go to a sub/slave situation that they envision. It will never happen. It's just entertainment for them to dream here. I feel sorry for them. They continue to live their boring lives, and THAT is what's really hurting them. They are full of shit. They don't understand themselves. Better to change your circumstances than wish for something that will never happen. Life is short. Most of these people will still be the same in five years. Change your mind and your life will change. 

9/10/2017 4:34:35 PM
Seriously, NO ONE is "born this way." Everyone is made. You have things you think you need, but what you have is patterns. Patterns can be broken. 

9/10/2017 3:49:01 PM
She who knows everything has no need to ask questions. An open mind is a rare find. WHY are you here? If you say "I'm not really sure, but I have a few ideas," that's a sign of intelligence, maturity, and potential. There are far too many girls here under 25 years old who think they know exactly what they want for the rest of their lives. They are wrong. 

8/26/2017 7:34:54 AM
Men who beat and inflict pain on women are immature, insecure, and stupid. Playing is one thing, bondage and teasing and a bit of torture for fun can add to sexual arousal and increase the intensity of the experience. But a true punishing sadist dom is simply either a very damaged victim of his own pattern of abuse or an asshole who can't cope with the outside world. As a sub, you have a past and a choice. You can let your past determine your future, you can continue to be a victim and reinforce your old patterns - or you can come to terms with it and start building a new woman from scratch. If you are interested in the second choice, contact me respectfully. I'm not better than you are, but I'm probably a lot smarter.

8/8/2017 1:49:03 PM
Revenge does not taste like blood. A lot of young women who have had difficult pasts don't realize this. They are stuck in their victim pattern, not thinking about their future.

6/18/2017 1:52:52 PM
I look for shy, intelligent women who want to be strong, more intelligent women. I get a reasonable amount of mail, and ... surprise! ... they are shy. They want what I have to offer, but they don't want to take any real steps. They are stuck here, reading. They visit other web sites. They have fantasies, yet plenty of them are still virgins or have had bad experiences in the past and don't take any real steps to changing themselves. Ask yourself - how do you want to be when you are 35? Do you still want to be imagining a reality that will never happen? How do you know what you want, anyway? 

I insist on a two-week interview by email. This scares most girls off. They say yes, they want this, but then in the first day of the interview they fail. They aren't willing to actually do anything, try something new, break a pattern, get out of their shell. So I drop them and wait for the one who is willing to work for it and learn about herself, about life, about the gift of obedience.

5/12/2017 11:47:45 PM
Stubbornness is not a good look on anyone. Most people are their own worst enemies; you are probably not an exception. Where is a girl who is eager to learn, has lots of questions, understands she'll make mistakes, and wants to work to improve herself? 

5/6/2017 3:58:51 PM
I'm getting quite a few inquiries from women 19-22 years old. I don't mind, but what they don't understand is how much work it is to manage someone else's life and help them make better choices. They aren't ready to put much work into it, and it doesn't take long before I drop them. My goal is to change your life significantly. I'm not going to do the work; you are. I'm going to guide you and teach you to fish, teach you to think better, make better decisions, build your future. How many gorgeous girls are here who just want to be smacked around for a year or so - sure, most of them are fakes, but I've met some real girls who are just giving up, rather than rising to the challenges life puts before them. Get real - your life isn't going to improve with some asshole beating you - that's just your coping mechanism from the past. Wake up, girls. Life is challenging. If you want to win, don't be a victim. Learn to take responsibility and be independent. Don't contact me unless you're serious about your future. 

1/1/2017 11:05:31 PM
The Marines say "Pain is weakness leaving the body." 

I say "Confusion is stubbornness leaving the mind." 

1/1/2017 3:24:20 PM
I'm looking for a smart young woman, someone preferably with a master's degree or who reads and learns eagerly, who wants to learn about herself and the world and have someone strong behind her. What I find is that most of the girls I meet here (the real ones, who actually are the people in their photos, which is maybe 30 percent) are just too judgmental. They think they know everything. It's really a pattern: they know everything about the world, they just need someone to hurt them, destroy them, call them names, spit on them, ignore them, put them in chastity belts or cages, etc. But the rest of the stuff they have a good handle on.

I'm looking for a girl who appreciates that the world is extremely complex, that people are impossible to figure out, and that there is no certain future. That she can't possibly see how things will turn out, and that she probably won't go through with most of her BSDM plans anyway. Just one girl who is willing to make herself a better person, to work hard to achieve her goals, to be challenged daily, to be given instruction and is expected to ask good questions. A girl who wonders about the world, the future, her purpose in life, and what the fuck she is doing on this web site. I haven't found her yet.

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