I'm feminine and well dressed (some would call me a lipstick lesbian) and expect her to be the same.
I am an advocate of TPE and will insist on complete control of her life. If you would not be happy in a strict, structured life, I am not the one for you. I don't bark orders, but when I ask her to do something she must comply instantly. She must be self supporting. I'm not concerned with the the type of work she does, only that she be able to handle a regular job. She should be able to handle housework, but I am not looking for a maid- She and I will cooperate on maintaining the house.
Although financially self supporting and close to probable retirement I'm not a sugar mommy. If you are looking for someone to provide your financial support, please pass me by.
Perhaps my desires might be summed up simply- I am looking for a permanent wife in the Victorian mold. Loved, yet one who understands that my word, when finally given, is law.