OK, are you kidding me??  There are some of you "Doms" who literally irritate me here!!  What is with the impatience??  A lack of patience signifies a lack of respect!!!  Why is it that some of you feel that a sub/slave should divulge personal info to you after only one e-mail or IM session????? 

This lifestyle is built on trust and respect!  You can not get EITHER of those after one damn IM!!!!!!  I WILL NOT give you my phone number or any other personal info so quickly, as there are TOO MANY psychos in the world!  Mutual respect and mutual trust TAKE TIME to build!!  Those of you who expect us to give you this type of information right off are sending a signal that YOU are FAKE!! 

ANY great Dom/Master understands that a level of trust must be established for these type of relationships to flourish, if you don't understand that then....YOU ARE NOT A GOOD DOM!!!!!!  You are merely in this for your own gratification....now WHAT in the world would make you think that a sub/slave is going to invest time in someone who has no respect for her??  A GOOD DOM/MASTER is patient, instructive, a protector, a teacher, a comforter and most of all RESPECTFUL!!!!  Yes, they are dominant and in control, but one can NOT be in control if he/she does not gain the trust of his/her sub/slave!!!! 

Word to the wise....get off your high horse, stop galloping head long into a destructive pattern, stop for a moment and realize that WITHOUT a sub/slave who trusts you, you are no more than a man/woman who wishes to be in control!!  Wishes can only be made a reality if you gain the trust and respect from a sub/slave!!!!  WITHOUT trust and respect you are nothing!!!  Without a sub/slave to rule, you are merely a person searching!!!  Learn YOUR place if you expect us to learn ours!!!!!

The Lover's Scene 

Cold, black satin sheets canvas the bed,
Rich, luxurious mahogany forms the frame,
Mirrors, polished with care lie ahead,
Taunting the lovers to begin a new game,
Candles aglow with an amber hue,
Solicit the mood of passion and sensuality,
A musky aroma permeates and subdues,
Toys of pleasure heighten carnal mentality,
A view of leather, satin, lace and much more,
Encourage a lustful yet shameless greed,
Novelties that most would seem to abhor,
Awaken the lovers' most inward needs,
The enchanting melody lingering in their ears,
Beckons their libido into lascivious affection,
Reviving emotions that were buried for years,
Tantalizing their taste of sweetest confections
What begins with a look, becomes savage and obscene,
As each takes on the most wanton behavior,
With ruthless caresses and thoughts that are unclean,
Tonight, she hopes, he will be her savior,
As he releases in her the need to submit,
Her body becomes, finally, whole,
Hoping against hope that he will never quit,
She allows him to encompass her soul
Awakening within her the most obvious desires,
She begins to understand her position,
That yearning, the need, an unrelenting fire,
       For total and complete submission.

Just a brief entry about me...

What could I say that would give you some insight as to who I am?  A description of my personna?  A summary of what I have dabbled in?  Perhaps a brief view into how I got involved in the BDSM or swinging lifestyle?  Hmmmmm, what seems more to the point and mildly interesting?

OK, here goes.....

After a long, dreaded, boring and unfullfilling relationship (as so many of us have lived in) I completely erased most everything in my life and began anew!  New living space, new friends, new everything! 

Upon embarking on this endeavor, I began to realize that who I was, what I wanted, no longer fullfilled my daily life!  I became very aware that I no longer liked who I was and that I had to analyze why I no longer liked who I was!  So, I began looking into things that might give me that added spice that we all so long for!  What I found, was a lifestyle that I could never fathom!  One that helped me explore my sexuality, my wants, my desires, my passions, and most of all, ME!  Does the journey make the man or does the man make the journey?

After some much needed research I began to search for others like me locally.  I found a few sites that were very informative, listed information materials and even went so far as to give information as to some local Clubs that were of relative interest.  Yes, I even joined that alternative site that seemed unfriendly and cold......ohhh, what we won't do to gain information!!

To make a VERY long story quite a bit shorter, I can tell you that this journey I am on is far from being finished!  I am still exploring different avenues and with each new day I find something that piques my interest!  I have discovered that I am "in love" with my new found personna!  I am ME, I am happy and I am a more fullfilled and loving person because of my journey!  How's that for a new beginning?

In questioning myself of what happiness is, I found that sometimes, in order to look forward we must first look back.......
"A journey begins with the first step."

To all who may walk into my new path, I wish you all the happiness your life can withstand!  Many blessings to you all!

Namaste