Welcome to my profile, and thank you for viewing it.
About me:
I'm a truly kind-hearted and respectful 48-year-old male bottom.
I'm recently divorced and have become very active in the lifestyle scene. I also dabble as a video sub, i occasionally do live performances at lifestyle and industry events, and i often serve as a demo dummy for BDSM classes.
I choose the word "bottom" as opposed to "submissive" because i'm really only submissive in a scene/lifestyle context. In the outside world, i'm more egalitarian in my interpersonal relationships.
Over the past year, i have had the privilege and honor to meet some of the most amazing people and do some incredible scenes.
I'm really into the outdoors (skiing, motorcycles, fishing, hiking, cycling), competitive and recreational shooting, and intellectual pursuits (politics and history, art, cinema). I am an attorney for a transportation company. I believe in self-reliance, rugged individuality, and independent thinking.
Why I joined Collarspace.com:
I am open to new play partners, but that's not really why I'm here. I am in search of something beyond what I have - a long term relationship with an intelligent, attractive, age-appropriate Dominant woman who is honest, emotionally available, affectionate, passionate about life, and looking for a true partnership and willing to explore her Dominant side. Experience and skill are bonuses, but as long as you have a true desire to be sexually Dominant, the skills can be learned. What I can offer you is a good hearted, strong but gentile, intelligent, responsible partner who is ready, willing and able to liberate you from the mundane.
To contact me, You should be:
In or near the Los Angeles area
35 to 50 years old
Attractive (not necessarily supermodel level)
Slender or athletic/toned
HIV negative
My D/s preferences:
My play style is very diverse. I enjoy scenes from the most gentle, sensual style to dramatic, heavy pain scenes. My most pronounced interests are heavy bondage, electrical, pegging, foot worship, collar & leash, mental domination, and pony play. I've been labeled as a "heavy masochist," but that's really a mis-characterization. I can and do take heavy pain (caning, singletails, needles, misc. impact, etc.), but i don't really enjoy it for its own sake. I do it as a service to a Domme who enjoys inflicting it, and in that sense i do enjoy it - partly as a matter of pride and partly as an intimate exchange with a heavy sadist in a good scene.
