Hello
I am currently located in the Netherlands for a Work Project and am interested in meeting a lady, specifically a Domme lady that will make me weak at the knees and snap to attention at her command.
I am looking to build a real and genuine relationship & I understand very well, the differences between reality and fantasy. I have been interested in the Kink for close to 20 Years now, and over this time have slowly but surely realized where i fit in as a sub. this is not to say that i am not still learning, growing and developing and certainly am still facing challenges and doubts as a sub, but trying to grow and develop day by day. :-) What this all means is that i am now looking for a Domme that is interested and willing to assist me to grow, for us to grow together to build a solid, trusting and honest relationship. to understand that we are real people with emotions and ups and downs, and that we can move in the right direction together.
A Domme to mould me and to push or nudge me, to help me reach my Happiness and ultimately to allow me to pleasure her or give her the greatest happiness she deserves. With that bit of Rambling above said.

• I am preferably looking for real life connections. (bearing in mind previous real life experience is low)
• I am open to online, once again (and most of my experience has been online only)
• I have hard limits like everyone else. (the most common included) and will discuss all in more detail when ing our connection.
• My kinks are quite varied, and I would say somewhat on the tamer side of Kink. (No Judgements of course ..)
• sample, foot, shoes and heel fetish, trample, cbt, humiliation, denial, orgasm control, punch, kick.
• • I have quite high tolerance for pain, but would need to start slow and gentle first ;-)

I have a lot of Vanilla interests and am full time employed, have friends and life very much outside of kink, i would like to think that finding the right person would allow us (if we wanted) to share our vanilla life and interests as well.