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"Mr Grey" is a fictional character but is there anyone in the real world like him??!!!!......

Is there ANYONE out there who is real and genuine?!....
I don't mind travelling, so it isn't an issue if you are not near to me.

BEFORE YOU READ MY PROFILE......Please know that I will ONLY submit to you privately, inside the privacy of four walls. I WILL NOT submit before my family and friends or in public.
If you are going to contact me, we will have to have a 100% Vanilla facade when in public together, if you are not happy with this, please do not contact me.
I AM 100% GENUINE AND HONEST AND EXPECT THE SAME IN RETURN, IF YOU ARE NOT, THEN I THANK YOU FOR READING THIS FAR AND WISH YOU WELL.

ABOUT ME......

I am a bisexual 29 year old, I am in a wheelchair, due to being born with Spina Bifida, this does not impact on my ability to submit myself to the right Dom.

I am very much into tattoos/piercings and yes I have a number of tattoos/piercings.
I am quite easy going and enjoy having fun and a laugh, whatever it is I'm doing.
If there's anything else you want to know, just ask! :o)

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR I am looking for a dominant man, who will control me, gently and in a loving way, but not in all aspects of my life, I will obey your wishes and your commands to the best of my ability. I am a submissive NOT a slave, I am only into this lifestyle which limits within the sexual pleasures. Not into 24/7 total control.

Submission is the greatest gift that can be given. It should NEVER be given or received lightly and must ALWAYS be respected. Submissives are NOT slaves, there IS a difference.

I may be submissive, but I am not a doormat; I may crave total control, and have a deep desire to do whatever I am told or made to, but only by someone who knows what he's doing, and who's at least as much interested in my wellbeing, as he is my submission.

I have plenty of vanilla hobbies and things I enjoy doing but I do appreciate the correct dynamic being in place when appropriate.
As far as protocols go, I think a couple decides for themselves what their protocols are and do not go by a generic list, that some unknown person made up and decided everyone should obey.
I believe that it is vital to establish a normal healthy relationship, along with the bdsm aspect. I want to be able to go on dates, relax, have fun, and function as any other couple. I am a fiesty girl, and very far from a slave. Yes, I will submit but on MY own terms. Do not mistake me for a push over. I am, shy, quiet, playful, sweet and fiesty.

I have some experience as a sub, due to not having found the right genuine non time wasting Dom, sadly I do not have as much experience as I wish to have.
I am looking for real life, NOT online fun and I am looking for long term, NOT a one off.
I am open to the idea of developing something into a relationship, if that scenario were to present itself and for this reason, I am only ideally looking to find a Dom, between 30-45 years old and who is living in the UK.....However if you are an interested older Dom and looking for LT, still get in touch, you never know!! ;o)
We can discuss the extent of my experience and what it is we are both looking for exactly and see if we are able to meet one another's requirements! :o)

I'm looking for friends and hoping to find the right Dom for me a long the way. Genuine people only need bother contacting me, I've wasted too much time on fakes and have no time for it any more. Thanks for stopping by and reading my profile! :o) Looking forward to hearing from you!!! :o)
2/24/2013 11:13:35 AM

Looking forward to my trip to Canada in June :o) 

10/11/2012 3:15:42 PM

Is there any body out there?!......

10/6/2012 11:51:56 AM

It's very quiet here lately!!! :o/

9/30/2012 8:03:27 AM

Looking for a new Dom, serious & genuine Dom's only please.

9/21/2012 1:23:41 AM
Will be looking for a new Dom soon :o(
9/20/2012 1:52:41 PM

Just had a chat with Sir, not sure where things are headed but hopefully we'll know in a few weeks :o)

9/20/2012 3:24:11 AM
Hmm, Sir has been very quiet over the last couple of days!!!...Not sure that's a good sign?!.... :o/
9/19/2012 1:31:18 PM

Not feeling great today, looking forward to my night out on Saturday, it's definitely needed.

I don't think Sir is going to be very happy with me, will find out next time I speak to him.

9/17/2012 9:49:31 AM

OMG!!......Sir is really torturing me today!!!

9/17/2012 3:19:14 AM
Oopps...Just got myself an hour of corner time :o/
9/17/2012 2:57:28 AM

Just found over 80 messages in my bulk folder, haven't checked it for a while, it's all checked and cleared now though.  Will have to remember to check it a bit more often!!

9/16/2012 12:27:38 PM

Still as confused as ever!!...What the hell am I supposed to do?!

9/16/2012 6:17:41 AM

Hmm, confused.com!!!!

9/12/2012 2:04:24 PM

Still feeling the same as I was earlier, time to do some serious thinking!!!

9/12/2012 1:43:05 AM
Hmm, :o/ So many thoughts going round in my head, wish I knew what to do!! :o(
9/10/2012 3:40:07 PM

I'm one very happy sub again tonight, it's definitely not going to last though lol, torture is in the air....!!

9/10/2012 10:58:43 AM

I have the best Dom in the world....I'm very lucky he has chosen me to serve him :o)

9/8/2012 9:15:58 AM

Had the most frustrating afternoon in a long time!!  Sir punished me for over 4 hours today and I did actually deserve it, so I can't even say he was being unfair.  I'm feeling shattered and will definitely sleep tonight.  I think I've finally met my match...Which doesn't have to be a bad thing, so long as I behave....

9/7/2012 3:28:40 PM
:o(
9/7/2012 12:45:41 AM
Feeling good this morning...Sir was very kind to me last night :o) I need to behave if I want more of what I got last night...Hehe. Time for breakfast, then a shower and then off to the gym for a workout and swim :o)
9/5/2012 9:18:02 AM

Another good session at the gym today :o)

9/3/2012 2:31:10 PM
Is owned and a very happy Sub :o)
9/1/2012 3:05:37 PM

Really starting to ache from my session in the gym yesterday :o/ 
Oh well, no pain, no gain!!!

8/26/2012 5:05:35 AM

Well London was disappointing but onwards and upwards :o)

8/24/2012 6:55:00 AM
Well in London alone, it's not been the best time but shit happens, I'm heading home tomorrow.
7/29/2012 6:42:36 AM

Getting really pissed off with all the fakes on here!!!  Think it might be time to close my account!!!

3/15/2012 7:45:43 AM

You scored 50 Slave, 75 Submissive!.....My score on a recent test!!  When you put a slave and a submissive side by side you notice the one major difference. The choice or freedom to say yes/no. A slave by meaning has no rights nor no voice in what is done to them. While a submissive still wanting to please like a slave, still has their limits and will say NO to certain things.

3/13/2012 10:47:59 AM

Another day, another player, is there anyone real on this site??? :o(

2/18/2012 8:58:33 AM

Had a great time in Manchester last night, was sad to have said goodbye to an old school friend though, on the same day...Having an early night tonight, I'm shattered!

2/13/2012 11:46:39 AM

STILL waiting to meet my match...Come on, where are you?!!

2/8/2012 3:08:38 PM

Really am getting annoyed with dom's who just don't have a clue and don't seem to understand what I want, even though I have explained that so clearly.  

This is just meant to be a bit of fun, don't be so serious ALL the time, chill and enjoy experiences, instead of putting pressure on a sub that is not desired, that then makes things unenjoyable for the sub and frustrating for the dom. :o(

1/30/2012 7:12:04 AM

Finally home and getting better, after a couple of weeks in Hospital and a week of bed rest. :o)

12/26/2011 11:54:17 AM

Getting fed up of messages saying the wheelchair puts people off!!!  If that's so, I don't need to know thanks!!!

12/12/2011 1:27:59 AM

Sick and tired of time wasters!!  They all claim they want to find someone genuine etc, when they do?(i.e ME!).  THEY turn into the time waster!!  So annoying!!! :( 

Yes, I may be in a wheelchair but I am still very willing and able to serve a Dom.
I am still a human being with feelings and as good as any sub who isn't in a wheelchair but unless some of you are willing to get over your ignorance and take a chance in entering the unknown, this is something you will never realise and ultimately, you will be the one to lose out!! 

Just had to get that off my chest :) 

fancydesire
 
 Age: 42
 Seattle, Washington