Sometimes I wonder where the men on this site get their expectations from. It's like half of you seem to think that all submissive women spend their time naked and waiting for a message from all of you Domly Doms. Others seem to think that we're all doormats and have no accomplishments of our own. And even more of you seem to think that just because I'm listed as a sub, you have permission to speak to me however you'd like.
I'd just like to set some of you straight here and maybe alter your expectations.
As I'm sitting here writing this, I'm wearing sweatpants, a hoodie, my hair is not done, and to be honest, I don't care. Women are not perfect twenty four hours a day. We do not wake up looking like supermodels, in our lingerie and heels and a full face of makeup. Some of you expect women to get up hours early to make sure that they look flawless. In fact, I've received messages stating that it's a rule. The truth? Most of the time I'm thinking that you can go fuck yourself. That's not to say I don't take care of myself, because I do. I put effort into how I look because it makes me feel good, but my life does not revolve around impressing men that just want to fuck me. I'm worth more than that. And so are most of the girls on this site. And if your self worth does revolve around impressing people on a site that in the long run really doesn't matter? Well, I'll save my opinion on that.
On to my second point: For all the men that think the word submissive means doormat. See the statement above that I'm pretty sure says "go fuck yourself". Think I can't hold my own against you? Think again. I'm not easy and I'm not going to roll over and spread my legs just because you send me a witty message. Chances are I'll see through most of your bullshit within 5 minutes. All of us do. I'm not here because I can't get a a guy in the real world so please don't think I'm stupid enough to settle for some lines on a website. fyi, I'm not.
Some of you also think that real world rules don't apply on here. When I get a message by some guy telling me that his fantasy is to watch 20 guys fuck me in every hole, I'm kind of disgusted. And amused. Here's a protip: If you send a girl a message that shows you actually read the profile, you're much more likely to get a response. If you send a message about how much you want to fuck me, I'll ignore it. I'm much more than a piece of ass. Every girl has a cunt. Every girl has a brain. Some choose to use the latter before involving the former. That's not going to change just because you send me a picture of you touching yourself. Sorry.
Some more things to consider:
-The person you're talking to is a human being--not someone sent down from God specifically to cater to every horny fantasy you have.
-If your penis is the most impressive thing you can show someone, you might have some soul searching to do.
-We actually have lives. Try asking about them.
-We are not all stupid. Please don't treat us all like we are.
-Some of us actually prefer to have conversations before we get naked for you. Shocking, I know.
Anyway, feel free to send me a message if all of this is old news to you. It's likely that we'll at least be able to be friends.
You can now get back to your regularly scheduled programming.
Quick edit: The first message I get after this? "I've always fantasized about...". /facepalm
