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Hello, there! (:
Here is what you need to know: Am I a... Submissive? Yes. Doormat? Hell no. I am new to the BDSM lifestyle, but it's something I've been interested in for a while now. I definitely do not want to live the lifestyle 24/7. I prefer to keep it mostly behind closed doors (preferably in the bedroom). I like to have control over most things in my life, this does not make me a Dominant. I feel that in the bedroom or sexually it's exhilarating to just let go and to let somebody else take the reins. I would appreciate total discretion. I will not be posting a photo on here and if you'd like to see one, I would prefer to get to know each other first. I hope to find somebody on here who is genuinely interested in the lifestyle and knows what the hell he is doing and eventual meet up in person, somewhere public (it's just a precaution, I mean, you never know these days), before rushing into anything. I am very open minded to pretty much everything, I do have hard limits (you can ask me about those later); however, I have a lot of limits that have yet to be pushed or explored as I am a beginner. Warning! I can be kind of shy at first and a little slow to trust. Just give me a chance and a little patience (which any good Dominant, in my opinion, should have any way) and I'll open right up to you. One more thing. Call me selfish but I don't share. I'm not into couples and if you already have a submissive or are in an open relationship, please, do not bother. If you don't want to share me, then it's only fair that I don't have to share you with somebody else either. Thank you.
Okay. Wow. I think that's everything (at least that I can think of). If you're interested, please, send a message my way.
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allison0264
 
 Age: 45
 Madison, wi, Wisconsin