i give up on here. this isn't a site to pursue the BDSM lifestyle as it claims, not sure what it really is maybe a way for perverts to meet up and have some fun. This site is distorting the lifestyle i have grown to love and making a mockery of it!  I am submissive, not brain dead. because i voice my opinion and yes i did say my cause did you forget i am a person first and a sub second. and because i choose to submit doesnt mean i will allow anyone to treat me any kind of way or disregard my feelings. as a Dom you should always keep in mind without the submission of a female your just an man not anyone's Master. how can you be Master of nothing with no one but yourself?   And some of you wonder why you cant find a slave or submissive it's your attitude, the way you talk to and treat them. Remember because we submit to you and give you the gift of our servitude doesnt mean that you have a license to act as if its your birthright. Its a gift one that should be catered to and treated as such not as if it means nothing to you. I have heard Dom's on this site say they dont care about the submissives feelings as long as they do as they order thats all that matters. Sir that maybe all that matters to you but not to us and again you wonder why you had such a good conversation but the sub has blocked you or is ignoring you.