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| All my articles and writings r only about teenage girls above the legal age of consent. I'm a professional Family therapist and published writer. I believe some young girls need BDSM to find their true center in life. I've written on the subject teenage girls into kink for Psychology Today, see a copy of my latest article in my journal. Plus other articles I've written for Playboy and Magnum.
The Daddy Dom/LG relationship is a special one. Where I as the Daddy am mentor, disciplinarian and provider of sexual release.
I believe many girls just need a regular spanking and hot load of cum from an older man. I'm actually quite well regarded in my field. There is nothing like an hour session, well technically 50 minutes, where I have a teenage girl sucking my cock, smacking her face with ut, unloading down her throat and then going out to take a $300 check from her, sometimes, unaware parents. And they gladly give the money because they know how much better their daughter is now.
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Teenage Submissives: Diverse Origins and Readiness Levels
18 to 19 year old submissives are often seen by the D/s community as a common mass defined simply by their age. When in fact teeenage submissives have a unique diversity of experiences and readiness levels to training. The following list is not to be exhaustive. Rather the list is an opportunity for subs to gain a better insight into what maybe driving their desires how their Dominant can best approach their training.
The Innocent:
With little real world vanilla experiences this submissive may still be a virgin. Her natural desire to crave submission is fueled by her own imagination and creativity, but limited by opportunity, perhaps by her upbringing and especially herown trepidations. But her natural craving for submissive forces her to explore her desires despite these barriers. Many Dominants wrongly believe she has countered the absence of real world experience with online exploration, when infact her innocence extends to even the virtual. Therefore her Dominant must first develop vanilla trust, then only after that introduce mental the physical, lightly at first, Dominantion (something as simple as telling her what to wear). If the Dominant moves to slowly the sub will stall and stay in her comfortable vanilla zone, too fast the sub will pull back and reject her Dominant's guidance.
The Slut
This teenage submissive has had lots of vanilla experiences. She enjoys sex, not because she has had a "bad" childhood but simply because she loves getting fucked. Her Dominant must be sexually proficient and well hung. Only a big cocked Dominant can demand true submission from a teenage slut. Her Dominant must demonstrate quickly his Mastery over the physical act of sex. Afterwards he then quickly must introduce her to the D/s forms of "rough" vanilla sex (which she'll be use to, such as the pulling of her hair and spanking). Then he must couple both mental and physical aspects of submission.
The Broken
Perhaps her father or some other male figure abused her, and her mind naturally is seeking out a D/s relationship as this is where she feels emotionally comfortable. By choosing submission and seeking out a D/s relationship she reasserts control over her life. Her Dominant must understand that physical domination is how she feels cared for. Therefore, the beginning of every session should immediately start withthe Dominant using her as a fuck hole. Once sexually used a teenage sub with these aspects now feels loved and is open to training. Over time sessions can slowly delay or dispense with this immediate opening, introducing more mental domination aspects of the D\s world.
The Over Achiever
She gets straight A's and is in every club and activity in school. Submission for her is not only a chance to relax by giving up control (as it is for submissives as a whole), but a chance to test herself. She lives her vanilla life cereberally and her Dominant can gain mental control through physical control. Her Dominant must be technically proficient, demonstrating his skill especially at rope play. She is rarely into fantasy play. She will ressearch, question and test the expertise of her Dominant. Ironically she usually does better not when her Dominant tries to just teach her, but shows that while he is informed he is also learning with and from her. This validates her desire to learn and engenders a common path with her Dominant.
Conclusion
These areas touch the mere surface of the complex and diverse origins of the teenage submissive. A good Dominant understands his role to address his training to the particular challenges and wonderful opportunites that the teenage submissive offers.
A special wanrning to the teenage submissive. You may crave having a Dominant strongly, so strongly in fact that you accept the first Dominant who seems half way decent. Jump as deeply as you feel comfortable into the world of D/s, it will place you light years ahead of your peers in understanding others and most importantly yourself. But also if your Dominant doesn't demonstrate an ability to address your unique barries to developing as a sub, then demand his progression or leave him. Great Dominants are great at their job (and sadly many simply suck at true domination) and you deserve to start at the beginning stages of your journey with nothing less than great. |
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Orgasm Control: Fundamental Principles, Cautions and Rewards
INTRODUCTION
Orgasm Control in the D/s world is more than the simple control of when a partner has an orgasm. Vanillas, persons not in a D/s relationship, may increase or decrease stimulation to accelerate.or.hold off an orgam. But Orgasm Control, when explored by a Dominant and their submissive, opens the submissive to yielding control to their most fundamentally sexual private act and brings forward an act typically seen as an involuntary autonemous response to that of voluntary control.
The results, the submissive gains deeper understanding of theirown body and a stronger more intimate bond is formed between the Dominant and his submissive.
CAUTIONARY NOTE
The exploration of Orgasm Control comes with unique and important concerns. Orgasm Control is perhaps the most dangerous of training exercises (but also one of the most rewarding). Such an assertion might come as a surprise to many in the D/s community. Compared to breath control, choking, suspension and some extreme forms of D/s play Orgasm Control seems quite mundane. But it is all the more dangerous percisely because it does not "seems" dangeroys
In the more obviously dangerous forms of D/s play those involved take more safety measures, know what dangers they risk and can actually "see", hopefully on the rare occasion, when harm is done.
But Orgasm Control, when NOT exervised as outlined in this paper, can result in the loss of the submissive's ability to have an orgasm, a wound fundamentally deatroying the submissive's relationship with their body, their Dominant and all future possible lovers.
STAGES TO ORGASM CONTROL
Stage One: Ascertaining Current Orgasm Triggers
First the Dominat needs to be able to stimulate an orgasm with their submissive under direct stimulation of the clitoris. Orgasms are triggered by both emotional and physical factors. In order to break the typical emotional barriers the initial best method is through the "20 Minute Orgasm".
The name itself is somewhat missleading. It is not an orgasm that lasts 20 minutes, but merely 20 minutes of direct light clitoral stimulation. A male Dom has the female sub lay on her back, explaining that infact an orgasm is not the purpose of the exervise. All she need do is lay back and spread her legs open. The Dom, facing away from the sub and the sub's vagina, applies a very very very light touch using his finger to the 2 o'clock/upper right position of the sub's clitoris. The lightest and tiniest of strokes are used for 20 min, no matter if an.orgasm occurs or not. This method places no stress on having an orgasm and will ultimately teache the sub how easily the Master can make her body feel amazing. After 20 minutes stimulation ends. The Dom the.places the palm of his hand over the aub's pubic area, tactically ends the session.
Stage 2: Intensification
Once the Dominant can consistantly make the sub orgasm through light stimulation, choking, verbal humilation, nipple play, cock insertion and more are all used to increase the intensity and number of physical and emotional triggers that lead to her orgasm.
Stage 3: Reduction
Now that the sub can orgasm more easily from multiple triggers now, Dominant starts restricting orgasm release. The progressive intensity of this reduction should be evolutionary slow. First starting with the slight pauses in physical stimulation far before orgasm. Then, just before orgasm, verbal commands not to cum are paired with cessation of physical stimulation, then ultimatly verbal commands to not orgasm are paired with continued with intense pysical stimualation. Ultimatly the goal here is to have direct light physical stimulation to the clitoris and be able to hold off an orgasm with mere verbal control.
Stage 4: Dueling
Now we introduce back stimulation ro orgasm with no restriction (basically Stages 1 and 2) then engage in both restriction and intensification (Stages 1, 2 and 3) techniques in the same session. In this stage the Dominate demostrates his complete mastery over the subs ability to orgasm.
Stage 5: Translation
This final step is often overlooked but is the highest level of Orgasm Control. With control over the subs body the Dominant uses non-physical stimulation to bring the sub to orgasm. For instance a particular song an be played or a non-erogenous part of the body can be stimulated to bring about orgasm. This is done by first overlapping known stimulants to orgasm to the new non-sexual stimulation. After this pairing isvestablished, slowly the non-traditonal is used solely to bring about orgasm. Over time the submissive will now be able to have orgasm from traditional and non-traditonal origins such as the touch of her elbow or from hearing a particular song over the radio.
Conclusion
Orgasm Control demonstrates to the submissive the Dominants ultimate mastery of her mind and body. Additionally, it alows the submissive to relax knowing than an orgasm is no longer the focus of play, as it can now be easily accomplished at the Dominants will. Allowing both to concentrate on other mentally and emotionally rewarding aspects of play between Dominant and submissive.
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Ten Things About Living With A Big Cock
Studies show that the average erect penius is approximately 5 1/4 inches. A large cocked man in most studies is considered anything over 6 1/2 inches, for my purposes I tend to only look at the data for 8 inches or more. At 8 1/2 inches I am placed in the .0000001 percentile of men. Meaning approximately one in a million have a cock at least my size. Having a large cock presents some unique experiences, opportunities and challenges.
BIG COCKED MEN:
1) ARE INDIFFERENT TO DEEP THROAT
Women, especially submissives, seem to think that deepthroating, is somehow the ultimate in oral pleasure for a man. For a big cocked man deep throating is more like a parlor trick than a source of high enjoyment. Yes a good sub should be trained to deep throat so she has the skill set, but if she wants to truely pleasure her big cocked Master she needs to pay attention to pleasuring the whole shaft. Most women who are not use to big cock tend to suck only the head (since by itself that's more than enough to fill her mouth), but the whole shaft can be a source of pleasure. Deepthroating prpvides only a gernal aense of stimulation to the shaft. Submissives of big cocked Masters should pay particular attenion to wprking up and down the shaft, sucking/licking/kissing/nibbling the side, base and balls of her Master.
2) CAN GIVE A THIRD TYPE OF ORGASM
Women have three standard sources of erroenous zones to stimulate an orgasm. Two sources are commonly known: clitoral and vaginal. The former provides usually a sharp higher intense orgasm while the later provides a longer deeper orgasm. (It should be noted that scientist now believe that the nerves of thee g-spot and vaginal walls along with the clitoris aew actually all part of the same nerve package, so that these sources are less distinctly defined than previously thought).
A third type of orgasm referred to as a "deep pocket" orgasm orriginates from a a collection of sensitive nerve ending approximately 8 inches into the vaginal canal. Thereby only a cock of t least that size can reach these nerves. It's also best reached by placing the girl on her back with legs up to her ears. Additionally the nerve usually only opena after the woman has orgasmed at least once from the standard way. A deep pocket orgasm combines both the intensity of a clitoral and the deepness and length of a vaginal orgasm.
3) BIG BALL AMD BIG LOADS
Along with a nig cock comes big nutt sacks. This is very frustrating, as a big cocked/big balls man I've had to learn.how to sot down wothout sitting on my.own balls. These means I don't sit down directly, but at the last moment sit by sliding back into the seat, pushing my balls forward and out of the way. I also shoot bigger than average loads and more of them. Big cocked men usually must maturbate 4-6 times a day simply to supress any discomfort.
4) EMBARESSING CHALLENGES IN THE BATHROOM
Soft my cock is 28.8% bigger than the average dick is hard. So when I stand at a urinal simply undoing my fly is not enough. In public restrooms I must undo my pants entirely and then drop them to nearly under my ass to let the shaft out so I can take a piss and the length means the head is so close to the porceline I have to be very conscious of avoiding backlash. Using a toilet provides no easy answer. As the cock shaft is so long it wants to lay in the water. Making going to a public restroom frustrating.
5) STARTED YOUNG
A recent Harvard Medical University survey revealed a correlation between shaft length and the age when virginity is lost and number of sexual partner. The bigger the dick the younger particpants started having sex and the more partners they had. Participants in the largest group, 8 inches plus, the group I belong to, lost their virginity 2 1/2 years on average earlier than smaller.dicked men. I myself received my first blow job at 12 and lost my virginity at 14 (14 was the average for the 8 plus inch cock size group).
6) ARE MORE LIKELY TO HAVE HAD INCESSTUAL RELATIONS
That same Harvard stud also found that big cocked men were 1200% more likely than small dicked men, those less than 4 inches errect, to have had sexual relations with an immediate relative, most commonly a mother. I myself received my first blow job from my stp mother at age 12, when my cock was already significantly larger than most adult males.
7) ARE ACTUALLY BETTER FOR ANAL
When used correctly big dicked men are actually better for anal. A big dick provides equal pressure to the anal canal all around, this results in the feeling of general pressure than a point of pain. Of course certain measures should taken: lots of lube, using an anal toy to pre-stretch and entering slowly.
8) GETA GOOD AT ORAL. BUT ONLY LATER IN LIFE
Big dicked men at a young age overly rely on their size to provide pleasure. Ultimately big dicked men realize that by first providing good oral to the women penentration becomes more statisfying to both.
9) FEET SIZE ARE MEANINGLESS
Feet size have more to do with muscular development of the feet than dick size. For instance I use to be a size 11 shoe, but once I started marathons and tri-athalons and a my feet got stronger, the muscles pulled in my arches and now I am a solid size 9.
10) ARE MORE CONDIDENT
Big cocked men aren't just more confident in bed, but also in life in general. The confidence they gain in the bedroom feeds a strong and healthy ego for the vanilla world. While not all confident men are big cocked, big cocked men are more likely to be confident then average and little dicked men. |
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Bimbofication: The Three Essential Aspects
Unlike many other forms of the D/s lifestyle bimbofication by necessity crosses the private/public threshold and changes how the submissive is viewed by her family, friends and complete strangers.
Complete bimbification entails development in three key areas: physical appearance, mental deportment, and behavior. A good Dominant cycles through the development of these three areas, using the progression in one to help progression in the others.
APPEARANCE
The bimbo must ultimately learn to take great pains in how she looks at ALL times. A bimbo always illicits sexual desire. When fully trained bimbo goes out just to get the mail, she's in high heels and a tight dresss showing off her legs, ass and tits. Her comfort is irrelovent.
Appearance usually goes beyond merely shoes, make-up and other fashion accessories. It also typically includes body modification, including most typically breast augmentation. A good Dominant chooses the appropriate modification at the the right time.
MENTAL
A good Dominant breaks the mental barriers of false pride that a bimbo-in-training may have and shows that a true bimbo feels pride in being seen as a sexual object.
Bimbos-in-training typically are attracted to bimbofication because of "the look". But comfort with being transformed starts with the mind, she can't achieve the true look of a bimbo without actually being one also mentally. Bimboficaation pairs mental acceptance with physical transformaion, Her Dominant can best do this by taking over more and more of her every day decisions. Bing a bimbo is hard work and like a personal trainer in the gym, the Dominant is there to push het, provide mental encourage and physical punishment when she falls behind. Punishment is critical for ultimate bimbofication. Bimbos are used to being worshipped by men, by punishing her the Dominant is asserting his superior role as mentor and trainer.
BEHAVIOR
Looking and feeling like a bimbo is not enough. A bimbo looks like a slut to all men but behaves like a tease and bitch to most Every man and women who see her thinks she'll spread her legs at a moments notice for anyone, when in fact she's a prude. She only fucks men who meet the qualifications taught to her (well hung, good looking, wealthy). If a man takes out anything less than an 8 inch dick, she kicks him out, unless he's extremly wealthy :).
Additionally her Dominant teaches her how to be an accomplished lover. Too many wannabe-bimbos are horrible in bed, having to rely only on their looks they are never pushed by lovers to be aan goodd fuck. Once in bed though a true bimbo is innovative and passionate slu
CONCLUSION
The bimbo-in-training must learn how to talk, walk, dress, think and act like bimbo. Unlike when a vanilla dresses slutty for a night out a bimbo transforms her outward not just to declare to the world her bimbo-ness but also to aid an reflect the mental transformation that's going on inside her. |
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