Tall, fit, Strict, trim, educated, classy and a gentleman. I’m 100 real, no nonsense, no games - always safe, sane, understanding and versatile.
I like women who are intelligent, sincere, who take pride in themselves and their appearance, sexy but in a classy way, not flakes or doormats. I believe a sub or slave should should hold her head high to the world, be proud and unattainable to men not worthy of her, yet possess a natural, instinctive desire to surrender to the one Dom who’s earned her respect and trust. I enjoy D/s and BDSM in mind and body, not just the physical. It has to be real and natural yet balanced with daily life, discreetly. A Dom’s authority is something a woman senses and feels on a visceral level, subtle yet undeniable, such that she finds herself wanting to obey and please, and in return she knows she’ll be respected and adored by her Dom / Master.
There must be a balance between D/s that’s real in mind and body, yet which remains private and discrete so both the Dom and sub: slave can go about their daily lives, careers, attain personal goals and enjoy vanilla activities - and still enjoy D/s, sometimes hidden in plain site. I’m not into “the scene” nor have any desire to be. The ideal D/s, BDSM dynamic for me is one that’s balanced with healthy, normal daily lives, else it runs the risk of become all-consuming - or the other extreme of being reduced to mindless role play. Neither is optimal, thus there must be balance.
The stronger the woman the deeper her surrender ~ I said that.
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NO single males! Males with sub wives or GFs may be considered if I confirm with female.