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Hetero Female Submissive, 46,  Palmdale, California
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I have very little experience in the lifestyle but am very knowledgeable about it and what I want. I am looking for a partner who will be patient and caring and will take their time with me. If interested message me.

Have no interest in online or entertaining anyone.

I am in an open marriage....hes vanilla. If thats an issue for anyone...not a problem...poly isnt for everyone. Good luck in your search.

I am broken. That means I need lots of patience and understanding. If you do not have an interest in being patient and understanding please refrain from contacting me. I am not interested in anyone who wishes to do me further harm.

I am only looking for a relationship....not friends with benefits, not play partners....a relationship. Im a polyamorous person and have no problems having multiple relationships at any given time. In fact I doubt Ill ever just have one relationship again. If this is an issue for you then we are not compatible and you should not contact me.

I am a large bbw....if thats an issue then pass me by.

I havent had sex in a years and as a result my sex drive has become I need someone patient and willing to slowly work my sex drive back to high. This does not mean Im looking for pointers or advice. Im well aware of what will bring my sex drive back. I need to be emotionally and mentally connected and have a partner who understands how I work....when I find someone like that my sex drive will return. If anyone who contacts me isnt willing to invest the time and effort towards that goal then please do not message me. Im only interested in those who are willing and interested in what Ive stated above.

I will not chat with you on Skype or kik or any other chat app. If youre too afraid to share your for texting and eventually phone calls when we get to those points then we are not a match. No exceptions.











 Submissive Female



 5' 4"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male

Switch Male

 Lives For:

 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Gambling (Expert)

 Being Massaged (Beginner)

 Horror Movies (Expert)




 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets

 Movies (Expert)

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)

 Shopping (Expert)

 Travel (Beginner)

 Dancing (Beginner)

 Horseback Riding

 Scuba Diving (Beginner)

 Snorkeling (Beginner)


 Begging (Beginner)

 Body Worship (Beginner)

 Breast Play (Beginner)


 Public Play (Beginner)

 Spanking (Beginner)

 Arcade Games (Expert)

 Board Games (Expert)

 Card Games (Expert)


 Comedy Shows

 Science Fiction


 Web Surfing (Expert)

 Alternative Medicine

 Cross Stitch (Expert)


 Online Auctions (Expert)

 Singing (Beginner)


 Paranormal Phenomena


 Eighties Music

 Nineties Music


 Pop Music

 Agnosticism (Expert)



 Ice Hockey





 Bar Hopping (Beginner)

 Coffee Shops (Beginner)

 Museums (Beginner)

 Volunteerism (Beginner)

 Camping (Beginner)

 Exhibitionism (Beginner)

 Hair Pulling (Beginner)


 Online Chatrooms

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Romance Novels (Expert)

 Simulation Games



 Cooking (Beginner)

 Gardening (Beginner)


 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 New Age Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music




 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Clubbing (Beginner)

 Aerobics (Beginner)

 Curious About:

 Going to the Opera

 Rafting (Beginner)



 Corner Time


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Foot Worship


 Housework Service (Beginner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Orgasm Control

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play



 Candle Making





 Soap Making

 1950s Lifestyle



 Garage Sales


 Historical Shows





 Antique Shows

 Masks on Partner

 True Crime

 TV Sports




 Female Sovereignty



 Hard Limits:



 Electrical Play

 Rear End Play

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play


 Modern Primitivism






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Journal Entries:
8/22/2022 6:46:34 PM

I have damaged knees and use a wheelchair currently just so everyone knows in case it's an issue.

I have never had enjoyable sex due to none of my partners ever caring or taking the time to explore or touch my body.

11/14/2021 9:06:13 PM

I'm going to reiterate here for those who fail to pay attention.   I'm am in an open vanilla marriage and have a vanilla boyfriend.  They are NOT involved in any other relationships I have.  They are aware.  I ONLY am interested in a real life full relationship.  Nothing online.  Please do not waste my time or yours if any of this is an issue.

3/11/2018 3:36:15 AM
If youíre not really interested in getting to know me and putting in the time and effort to develop trust...then do NOT bother me. Iím sick and tired of these so called dominants spouting how theyíre so different only to disappear. Itís ridiculous and a time waster. Do not waste my time.

2/14/2018 3:48:12 AM
Happy Valentines Day everyone!!

1/6/2017 1:02:50 AM
Do not send me friend requests unless we've spoken and have become friends. If you do so without speaking to me first you will be rejected and ignored.

7/4/2016 2:36:45 AM
Happy 44th birthday to me 😊

10/1/2015 8:55:01 PM
If you are looking for masturbation fodder, to cyber, to sext, to just talk about fantasies, or just looking to pass the time, or looking for an online relationship or submission...please pass me by.  I am seeking a real connection with a real person who wants to know me.

Thank you

12/31/2013 4:54:38 PM

Please do not send me a chat request unless we've emailed prior.  I do not accept chat requests from anyone I have not spoken to at least once before.  Thank you.

7/4/2009 1:24:38 PM
Today's my birthday.

11/22/2008 11:24:16 PM
After reading a very informative book recommended to me I feel I now have a much better idea of what I want and what bdsm is all about.  I finally feel informed...and hopefully can now be successful in my pursuits.

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