Hi, thanks for looking at my profile, I've just changed it to try to be a bit clearer on what I am and what I'm looking for.

I'm here predominantly for email/chat and have been having some good conversations recently. Not just kinky chat but also, given the nature of the website, more about the nature of dynamics of the D/S relationship. What makes each one tick, what does each party get out of it? I'm also looking to chat to female slaves to try to understand that aspect of BDSM.

This is so I can partly understand myself. I put myself down as a dom because I would prefer to be dominant and not submissive. So I can't be a switch! The thing is, that I have the utmost respect for subs in terms of the trust and consent they give. Does that not make me a dom then?

Discuss! I'm prepared to answer any question put to me but would also ask questions too.

I do have a kinky side too, which is why I find myself on this site. I love the thought of roleplay and losing yourself in the fantasy. I like the idea of rough, forced sex where the man uses his position of power to use and degrade a woman. Think boss/secretary. Or where the man forces himself into a position of dominance over a woman who initially has control. Think female boss getting her come uppance!

That means if you're afer a bit of filthy chat I'd be up for it. I like to think I have a vivid imagination and anything goes.

Anyway, if the thought of it's not too off putting, drop me a message. If we find we're not on the same wavelength we stop. Simple as that really, no harm done.

Thanks for getting this far

M