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It's definitely time to update this profile. I haven't engaged in any submissive relationships since I posted this profile over two years ago, and I've only accessed this site periodically, seemingly when I find myself a bit frustrated with the men I seem to meet in the real world. I surmise that the reason behind my lack of D/s relationships is the fact that I find it difficult to start from that commonality. There are so many other sides to me that must be accepted, and I'm skeptical that this can be accomplished here. I'm intelligent and smart; fit and very attractive; fun and kind. I am very involved with my career, so I'm not looking to be kept financially. I am also very independent and strong. I hold three academic degrees and take education very seriously. I want my lover to be educated and intelligent, as well. A problem run into time and time again is my natural tendancy to dominate a man who is not innately dominant, himself. I must have the notion that a relationship needs to have that imbalance in order to be balanced. I would love to find myself on the submissive side of the scale. The last such relationship I had was intense, passionate, emotional, and memorable.
I love a dominant lover. A lover who is innately dominant and who can deliver a good spanking. A lover who will test my limits, even after I say no, but know when no means no. I want him to respect me, adore me, desire me, teach me, and permit me to offer the same to him. I want him to invite me into his lair after a evening of theatre, cocktails, and witty repartee. I want him to be here in my City, as I have no interest in relocating. I also want him to be somewhere near my age. 33 to say...44? Am I applicable on this site? Does my desire exist?
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