What I hate more than anything is deceit, lies, any kind of posing or false representation. Sheesh.  When you say you are 6 foot 9 inches tall and weigh 55 pounds, don't you think that is a bit suspicious? Oh yes. stupidity is a huge turn off also.

If you are here just to prey on  the lonely men looking for company, shame on you. Yes, I do agree that the men here are also clueless and  perhaps here to prey on the real submissive women. That is also sad and reprehensible.

But... since I  did meet my last submissive g/f online and then face to face, I  guess I still have hopes it can happen again. One can only dream.

To save a little time... No, I am NOT interested in men.

Our book is finished and published on a free site. For those of you that like a good BDSM story feel free to read. You can read other comments about it there and leave your own comments and vote. We would love the feedback

I will give the link but first just a bit of background. About a year and a half ago now I met on myspace (on a Gorean page I had created), a young Asian college girl. When she learned I was a writer she asked if I would co-author a story with her and publish it on the net. I agreed. It became the length of a small novel. Essentially it is based on her fantasies, though not ones she would really want to live out.  I will just list the info for it that is listed on the site and the link to it and you be the judge. We would love to have you comment and vote there.

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I see over and over again women here recounting their interaction with the men. Most of the stories of men here are laughable but some sound like dangerous men as well. A submissive woman does often fall prey to abusive an abusive man. I think the internet is a help rather than a dangerous medium for meeting people IF you take your time. Never rush to meet or for that matter even to talk on the phone. If someone tries to push you or gets angry, HUGE red flag. A man that gets pissed off at you online is not a candidate anytime soon or ever.

Men that are not what they seem or are potentially dangerous have no patience, they will move on. But always be careful. Women are vulnerable. But hopefully you will find the right man or woman that will fill your needs.

Its truly sad when I see a woman say.. My master wont let me talk to any other Doms without his permission. This tells me....

 1. he is so insecure he is petrified you will find someone who is more what you need. If he gets angry with you, obviously he can't control himself and should never be in control of anyone else.

2. he doesn't trust you, and TRUST is the very core of a true D/s relationship. (should be in any)

3. he is not really a Master but an abuser. If he hits you out of anger. You are in huge trouble.

Look up the attributes of an abusive/deadly relationship. They will talk about men that cut off their partners from friends and all other so they can control them untill they finally beat them to death.

Now. Having said all that, yes I know that is what some women want. Good luck to you. But to me a D/s relationship is symbiotic. Finding that partner for mutual completion. It can be total giving up of power but it can be still be the most loving of all.

Submissives are vulnerable. It is difficult to find what they need. There is a fine line between a submissive and a victim. And yes I do understand requiring permission to do things (even speak) in the D/s world. But that is long after total trust is established in a real life scenario. After an understanding is reached. Not here in Fantasyland.