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misstrisha
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Firstly, I apprciate you taking the time to read my profile in full as I've taken the time to fill it out. It goes on slightly but if I lay all my cards on the table now, there shouldn't be any mis-understanding or ill feeling later will there?
I've been a naturally dominant man for as long as I can remember but actively interested in BDSM for about 8 years now and during this time, I've had a number of fun and interesting experiences with like-minded people. Some good and others not so good.
It's all been a constant learning experience all the same and in recent months, some of these experiences have given me a better understanding not only of the lifestyle but also of myself and what it is I'm looking for here.
I'm looking for a submissive female or females to share some regular fun and interesting times with initially but ideally I'm hoping to develop something long-term into a full 24/7 Master/slave relationship.
Specifically what am I looking for in somebody? Or what is the right person? Well "ideally", I'd prefer someone between 18-35, very broad-minded, open to new ideas, experiences, a sense of adventure and willing to take a risk or two which therefore requires 100% trust.
I'm not interested in subs filled with angst or scepticism due to thier previous bad experiences. I know it's easy to type-cast people and to a degree and that we're all guilty of doing it in one way or another but I'm not here to be a psychologial punchbag because of someone else's past actions or abuse towards you!
So basically, if it's going to take months before anything actually develops, we're definitley not going to be compatible as by then the flame will have well flickered out before it even sparked. Harsh but true.
Age and looks? Well, to be honest they're not "too" important. I'm not exactly looking for a super-model but a sub who can make the effort to look her absolute best regardless of her weight or age will gain my respect much more than that of one who doesn't. Nobody over the age of 45 years or under 21 would be a bonus also but as I said earlier, these would be what I was "ideally" looking for and as we all have various strengths and weaknesses I'm always willing to overlook certain things if a person has strengths in other areas that will grab my attention.
Me? I believe myself to be a strong person both mentally and emotionally. However, I'm the first to admit that I can be at times, very demanding and therefore hard work as I enjoy pushing boundaries and seeing how far a sub would be willing to go not only for me but also for herself. I'm also very stubborn. Therefore, It's my way or the high-way. That doesn't actually mean I won't listen and/or respect a subs views or opinions though however. I believe myself to be a good decision-maker and leader therefore from your point of view I'm always right however wrong that may seem to any of you. I can also be very cruel and at times a complete bastard but more often than not, I don't have a problem in showing my softer side in terms of care and affection. I'm the first to reward tolerance and perseverence...
Yes, I have a photo of myself upon request. But I've chosen not to put it up on my profile for a couple of reasons. If I like the feel of you, then by all means you'll see it.
Well, I hope that gave you a little insight to what I'm about. But if there's anything not covered or you'd like to ask me about, you know where I am so feel free to ask.
StormShadow
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I'm begining to realise more and more that the internet appears to offer the sanctury of security and even power for the weak-minded individual or for anybody who has niether such thing back in the real world... *smiles*
Maybe a lot of people on here just see wasting peoples time or deliberately trying to irritate to get a reaction, a way of "killing" time in thier meangless lives when it's something in fact that should be treasured.
It's sad to see that a lot of profiles belonging to both Dominants and submissives, state that they're becoming very dissillusioned with the site and most of the people on it also. Is there anyway way of filtering out the mere attention seekers, players or even timewasters? There "has" to be at the very least, a small hand full of people on here who are 100% genuine. However, it's like looking for a needle in a haystack and although I'm sure the needle is there, yet again it comes back to "time". Something non of us really have a lot of...
Obviously if some of the people on here were as forward as thier profiles made them, there would be a lot more happier people on here. That I am certain of.... haha |
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Still nothing changes in 3 years... I beleive BDSM has in a way become like some forms of sectarian religion. Some people who believe it means one thing others that believe differently but all parties believe thier way is the "TRUE" way or meaning?
It's amusing when they trip over thier own web of hypocracy in the end though...*smiles* |
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Some of the same people still here I see, some even with unchanged profiles... after 3 years! This is NOT looking very promising. *smiles* |
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...It's beem nearly 3 years since I was last on here. I found myself getting dissillusioned not only with the site but with the so-called BDSM community as a whole so my attention ended up getting drawn back to the vanilla world which wasn't that much different in many ways if I have to be honest...
So here's one last attampt. I'm sure there's subbie that's looking for the same thing and fits my criterea somewhere on here by now surley...
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Why should I apologise for telling the truth, and then to have it thrown back in my face? lol *sigh*
Not anymore... ;) |
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What does the term "slavery" mean to you? I had a very interesting chat with somebody the other day about wht the term means. It's interesting though how alot of people have different interperatations to what it actually means within the BDSM community... |
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You reveal all, tell the truth, lay down the rules, and both agree on them face to face then to only then have the other party go back on thier word.
Is this why most men apparently "lie" to get what they want? lol
Such is the world. |
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I wonder why would somebody go to the all the lengths of chatting to somebody and getting to know them over a considerable amount of time only to completely fuck them about? It must give out some sort of incredible chemical release...
But like the Murphy's I'm not bitter... lmao |
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| Age: 23 |
| Pensacola,
Florida |
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