I have to admit that I am more than a little disappointed at this site.  There are a lot of fake people on here.  Most of the ones that I have dealt with have all kinds of hang ups, seem to want to do some kind of Cyber thing, or are simply not real to their posted beliefs and desires.  And what is it with all of the non acceptance of each others kinks?  Really? 

  The thing is, if you make a profile on this kink site, it is supposed to be because you are, well, kinky!  We are a community people, and what you see is what you get.  We are all there is, so make your picks, and just have fun!  Damn! 

  The women contacting me are playing coy, like this is some high end date site, and like they all want some immediate, long term commitment before we even get to meet!  Really?  I never mentioned marrying you or anyone else on here.  And I have yet to see a profile stating that goal on here yet.  I am not saying that it can not happen, but people, get real!  I am on here to find a woman who lives the lifestyle, somebody that gets me.  I like poly, but that does not mean that I can not commit.  Shit I was married for seven years once, and eight the next time.  I can commit.  They cheated, when they could have been honest to me, and so I am divorced.   To me I am all about weeding out the bull shit and getting down to the real.  If you contact me you better be about your business woman, I am not on here to chat! 

  I want some kind of relationship too.  I do not expect you to submit to me right off the bat, or to just hop in the sack with me either.  If that happens, cool, but I am going with the flow of things.  I am willing to just conduct play, or to possibly pursue some kind of relationship, whether something light or something very deep and heavy.  The reason for that is because you never know what can develop between two people. 

  Chemistry is hard to determine online.  I am into meeting sooner rather than later so that we know if there is something to work with or not.  That means if you like my profile, and contact me, I expect you to exchange numbers after a short volley of Emails so that we can text or chat.  And then to meet someplace public so we can just hang out and see if there is something.  And then meet again, maybe a couple more times if need be to see if we click.  And then IF we click and have chemistry, then let us make decisions about starting relationships THEN.  Sound good?  Or am I just crazy? 

  The bottom line is that I am for real.  Just be honest with me.  IF you are married, but allowed to play, then I might be into that.  If you want a man, then say so.  But whatever you do, be real.  No more fakes.