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| Who am I? In no particular order:
I am tall with long brown hair (going grey in places, alas) and in reasonable shape.
I am somewhat reserved until I know you, and will rarely push to the front of a crowd.
I have too many hobbies. I own too many books, and too many anvils.
I just earned my private pilot license, and love to fly.
I am happily married to BluePeitho, and we have been successfully poly for many years.
I recently became both Dominant and Daddy to UnlearntBeauty, which I still find amazing and happy making. Daddy is a new role for me, but one that resonates. I have always had a strong streak of mentor and caretaker, and this is that, on steroids.
I am drama averse, though I do own a llama. No, really.
I am a dominant, but not much of a sadist. I am happy to cause pain to get the effect I want, but your pain is not my goal. I want control, and connection. I want to know I am having an effect, an impact. I want to push edges, to take you places, to craft experiences.
I have been described as worryingly creative. You should not tell me you have always wanted to try something unless you mean it.
Fear excites me. I have a strong streak of predator, and will chase you down if given the chance.
Intelligence thrills me.
I am obsessive about rules and consent. Be sure to be honest with me though, as if you tell me I can go up to X, I probably will.
I crave connection and intimacy. I adore aftercare, and snuggles. I have performed 4 hours of aftercare from a 15 minute scene, and was not unhappy with this.
I have 20 acres and a backhoe.
I enjoy resistance. You don’t need to fight back, but if you wish to I will happily take you down. I will take damage to get what I want.
A wonderful play partner refers to me as her villain. This is pleasing, though I have not yet been able to make the electric fire spiders work. *sigh*
I am equally willing to be silly or serious, and indeed need both in my life, and my scenes.
I am overly romantic at times, and occasionally cynical.
My littlest victim says that I will make you feel like a princess if you let me, though you should expect to spend some of that time in distress.
I am easily pulled to the emotional state of people I connect with, and so prefer to be around (mostly) positive people.
Communication and expectation management are important to me, and I believe I am good at both.
I come with references.
I love to teach, and to learn.
I am currently sharing more information than I am altogether comfortable with.
I am hoping to find intimacy, connection, play, and fun.
Who are you?
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"I ask for so little. Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave." |
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We had a small gather at my house tonight, and I spent a good half of it in the kitchen cooking, prepping, etc. This is not uncommon for me, but for some reason it started me thinking about my “role.”
On one hand it feels a bit service-y, making sure everyone has what the need, everyone is fed, and so on, but it is also a very controlling energy. I *will* make everything go right, and I will run the kitchen. I will take care of my people.
On the other hand, I am an introvert, so the cooking is a place to hide a bit. People come through 1-2 at a time and chat, but I don’t deal directly with the larger group until a bit later in the party, by which point I am more relaxed and have an easier time moving into the group.
On the gripping hand, I just love to cook. If my cookbook stack fell on you, you might not live through it.
Pointless musings at 12:30 on a Sunday…. |
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Yes, I really own a llama. I have uploaded a picture of us getting ready for a hike.
Is that really what people are wondering about me? How odd.... |
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