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A BDSM relationship is a symbiotic one.
It is one that requires, not just trust, but the earning of trust.
It is NOT one where the submissive is the "doormat" of an insecure Dom.
It is one where two opposites come together as one.
A yin & a yang.
Submission and Domination must be earned by both sides if there is to be a harmony and a healthy relationship.
A SUB has very clear and specific responsibilities.
A DOM has even more specified responsibilities, as well as a required burden of Ethics.
No less can be expected or tolerated.
There is no middle ground when it comes to Ethics. Ethics, as well as the process of earning ones trust, are non-negotiable in this relationship.
Without either, there is no relationship. These are the basics.
These are the fundamentals.
This is why Mentoring is required.
Mentoring is a position that must only be taken on, by no one less than one who benefits from the education others.
Someone who's Ethics are unwavering.
Someone who's desire for right and wrong is more important than their desire for personal gain.
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