Ho well Christmas is nearly here, and it looks like I with so many will be on our own :-(
Ho well we will have to see what next year holds

For me bdsm isnt about sex...sex is a part of it, as it is in any relationship...its about TPE mental and physical...when the relationship is right it is magical...deeper and far more committed than any other type of relationship...based on trust and respect

Hello.
If you are an experienced submissively minded female or have submissive cravings that you need to act upon and would like to find a genuine, reliable, dominant male who will take the time and effort to help you Investigate your desires then the following may be of interest to you.

Ideally you will be looking for a full interpersonal relationship, leading to an eventual 24/7 TPE commitment when sufficient trust and confidence has been built up by both parties. The foundations of the relationship will be based upon the development of a close strong friendship and a deep understanding of each others psychological/sexual needs and Desires.

The ability to talk openly and have a good laugh with one another is absolutely essential. I have the utmost respect for a submissive female because she is putting not only her trust but also her physical well being in the hands of her Master.

I regard it as one of my responsibilities to her to ensure that such Trust is well founded since without this it would impossible to allow the relationship to gradually progress into those areas initially agreed to be out of bounds. Indeed the loss of this trust would render the relationship untenable.

So, a little about me. I am an intelligent, well educated, mentally and emotionally stable 46 year old guy with a very good sense of humour, a vivid imagination and a very assertive sexual streak. I am reasonably good-looking, 5ft 8in tall and am medium build. I have a number of good social friends and I enjoy the usual pastimes such as going to pubs, theatre, cinema, restaurants etc.so you could can expect a fairly active social life and you will not be cut off from contact with your own friends.

The right sub for me will understand what I mean when I say that I will cherish you, adore you, love you and control you. You should also be able to see through the apparent paradox that while I am assertive I am also a very 'giving' person so that during my more romantic moods you can expect to receive unsolicited gifts and other pleasant surprises.

I do not anticipate immediate success but if the above does hold some interest for you then you have nothing to lose by dropping me a reply. In private correspondence I will be willing to enter into discussion about any aspect of the relationship frankly and openly and expect the same from you. This is no time to be shy!

I am more than happy to meet for a chat over a coffee but I will not try to dominate straight away on the first meet as it is just a meet to see if there is chemistry there. In fact I will be a gentleman and caring etc etc but don't let that fool you as I can be an evil sadistic Bastard with a capital "B" when and if I get to know you and the mood take’s me. But I have in the past met up with potential subs/partners who have unrealistic expectations of a first meet.

None of this, however, should be taken as a sign of weakness, only of true affection. I am very broadminded and unshockable and there is probably very little that I would say no to or refuse to do if was something you expressed as a desire.

I can be very cruel when required but never maliciously violent. I am not about to go into a list of activities that I would do with you because to do so would be trite at this stage as we both know the score here.. All I will stress is that I very much enjoy the psychological aspect of the D/S relationship and will be looking to investigate this particular side of my own psyche
I hope to hear from you soon.