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I'm a lifestyle Dominant with over 13 years experience (references from subs and Doms furnished upon request). I'm monogamous (a minority in the Austin area, which is mostly poly), loving, caring, and mildly sadistic.

My skills and special interests go beyond those available for selection as part of the available profile choices. However, my primary play involves Japanese rope bondage, flogging, caning, whipping, and fire play - which I've learned from Midori, Numinous, Lochai, Bridgett Harrington, Jay Wiseman, David Walker, and others.

I attend local and national community events, educational seminars, meetings, activities, and play parties (even though the majority of my play is private). I've DMed and provided CPR / First Aid support at parties and events, and I am in a well-respected mentoring program, as well.

I support RACK (& SSC) concepts, and respect hard limits. I believe mutual trust, honor, and respect are essential, and work towards mutual exploration and satisfaction of needs, desires, and expectations. I am relationship-oriented, enjoying non-casual play more (i.e., I must like you and feel a connection first for my greatest enjoyment), and for me this lifestyle is not about sex. As the relationship grows, I will push agreed soft limits from time to time. I believe that both Dom and sub / slave should grow as the relationship grows.

In July 2004, I released my slave collared in July 2003, and am looking for a submissive / slave whose interests are along the lines of mine and who is looking for more than play.
Permission is given for you to make the first contact.

Cheers,
Steve Indands

GoddessPaulina
 
 Age: 45
 Midland, Texas