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Wanted: Truly submissive female or potential and desire to be. (If youre a phony, don't bother, I'll find out.)
Your deep desire and innate ability to be submissive and grow in your submission thru proper training. Necessary mental qualities include Trust and Faith in me as ur Alpha, extreme desire to please, willingness to learn, understanding that soft boundaries will be tested, explored and expanded. Hard boundaries will be honored. Most important of all is Chemistry and Connection. If we don't possess these qualities together, it won't work.
Physical qualities I'm open to any race. Open to any height or body type but I lean toward slim and in shape. (There's beauty in imperfection.) What matters most is SEXINESS, which starts in your mind not your body. (NEWS FLASH yes a submissive woman can and should view herself as, and feel, sexy). I'm also open to any age, younger or mature. Again, the qualities listed above take precedence.
Must be non-smoker, not into drugs, into eating and acting a healthy lifestyle.
Me: I'm caucasian, a younger looking and acting 58 year old, 6 feet tall, about 185 lbs. I go to the gym daily. I'm not a musclehead but Im not soft either. I hold a professional management job that allows me freedom to work from home and make my own schedule but I do travel as needed. I absolutely love all women, but especially submissive ones. I'm a real Alpha - not a phony Alpha jerk like say the Donald Trump type. (I prefer not to use the word Dom to describe myself, as I feel most Doms are justs perverts on ego trips.) I'm a nice guy and treat people like I want to be treated, setting the example whether they follow or not. I thrive, as we all should do, on positive energy, not negative. I've succeeded in removing most negative energy out of my life and lifestyle. I appreciate a true submissive, especially if it's the whole person, a combination of domestic, mental, emotional and sexual. As I mentioned, willingness to be trained in any of these areas is a huge plus if you don't already posses them.
*The more submissive you are/become, the more I will treat you like gold. A true submissive honors her submission by becoming PROACTIVE, not reactive. A true submissive understands this dynamic and doesn't question it but rather it is the credo she lives by.
Acceptable scenarios: vanilla in public and submissive in private, or submissive in public and private. I'm open, as this is a partnership to be discussed and agreed upon by both of us. 50s lifestyle is also a possibility.
Short term to start, but leading to long term would be the obvious goal, if the chemistry and connection are there. I live in the northern NJ area and if long term happens, I'm open to discussing living arrangements in the tri-state area, as my job is here.
When I give a collar to a woman, it should be viewed the same as when an average person gives an engagement or wedding ring..
Be proactive and creative and you'll rise to the top of the list
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