Can someone explain the need for people to get nasty (not in a good way!) on here?  I read so many profiles from subs and slaves about Doms that get nasty.  Yet I have seen my share of subs get really nasty for no reason.  Is it possible to just RESPECTFULLY disagree?  How about, "you know, I just don't think this is a match" or "I don't think we want the same things."  If you decided things don't work for you why be shitty? 

On a related topic, does anyone here think D/s has as much (or more) to do with a way of behavior and respect (both directions) as it does about sex?  Where are the people that hold themselves to high standard?  Or maybe I'm wrong. Maybe it is just about being an asshole and ordering people around or being ordered around.

Thoughts?