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I often wonder if someone puts down that they are an "expert" in a given area, does that mean they like it alot or they are just good at it... |
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I am amazed at the number of people who do not post in the journal area. I would think that would be an excellent chance to expound on your point of view. It is hard to get to know someone just from reading a list of likes and dislikes.
Makes me wonder if they really are into trying to meet someone or they are just here because it is a focal point for this life style. |
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I am truly amazed at some of the questions asked on this forum. I am not sure what some of these people are thinking!
It is like they have just landed here from another planet and are trying to get up to speed on what is going on.
Well, I have definitely screwed up my settings somehow... |
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Well it is the beginning of March and for us in the northern hemisphere...Spring! I am glad it is finally here...I was getting tired of cold weather.
The world still seems to be in a general state of flux, especially the middle east. The people are rising up and wanting democracy...Hmmmm why now? They have lived under dicatorships for thousands of years and had no problem with it.
Ole' Mommar is going to kill everyone in Libya before he gives up. But then listening to him talk there is no uprising, all his people love him!
We are experiencing something similar here with the Public Unions. I can understand both sides of the arguement. Those that have or will get the benefits don't want to give them up...Those that have to pay for those benefits can no longer afford them. I don't have an answer...all I know is we are going out on thin ice as a country and it is spring...
The protests are getting more and more violent and that is not good. The news media in my opinion, is doing a very poor job of portaying both sides of the issue. But then what do you expect from todays media. It certainly in not objective and that is a very sad thing...
Hope springs eternal or something like that...and the world may come to an end next year! What are we to do...
Well, I don't know what the hell happened to this entry! |
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Being retired with extra time on my hands I really do enjoy reading profiles as I have mentioned before.
Have you ever noticed that you read some profiles and you just really would like to meet that person in the flesh and then there are others...
I find that really interesting. Some people really take the time to express themselves in an intelligent manner and then there are others...LOL isn't life great?! |
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Well, once again I am browsing through the profiles of people on collarme. If you have never done that, try it, it is humorous at the very least and very entertaining.
What is a "natural" dom? Are there un-natural doms?
Do doms come in various flavors? Natural, un-natural, semi-natural, kind of natural, almost natural, somewhat natural, not natural at all!
Just me thought for the day...I just watched UCLA manhandle Texas... Ohio State 73!!! OMG!!! |
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They say a picture is worth a 1000 words...I wonder sometimes if I am the only one that has ever heard that. I would think that if you are going to post a picture it would be a flattering one. One that would make you look your best. After all, if you are looking for a sub or an owner you are trying to present your best image.
If you post a picture of your cock, what does that say about you? Is that your best asset? Is that how you define yourself as a person? Or if you are a dom/domme and you look like you have been on a all night drunk and are scarier looking than Godzilla how many people is that going to attract?
Just another thought on profiles in general...Kudo's to those of you who have posted good pictures... |
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They have an interesting question on the internet today. Is it better to be called fat or obese?
I really don't think either one is great...Maybe rotund would be better! |
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Do you think we as people are looking to much for the exact person? I read a profile today where the lady was so exacting for what she wanted it sounded like she was ordering a custom made human from a factory!
I want him to be 6'2"
I want him to weight 193 pounds
I want him to have blue eyes and blonde hair.
I want him to have a college degree in business.
I want him to be 43 years old...etc, etc. Is she kidding? Or does she really expect to find this perfect human? I sometimes wonder...
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I read the profiles here, just to see what people say and more importantly what they say about themselves. I am amazed at some of the things people say! Plus, I guess spelling is a lost art form. I would think that either a sub or a dom/domme would want to put their best foot forward and make themselves sound appealing and worthwhile...from what I have read that is obviously not the approach some take and don't even get me started on pictures!!! A person does not have to be a professional writer to post an appealing blurb. Of course I realize that English is not everyone's primary language...so they are excused! But for those of us who use it all the time we should be better at it...me included!!! Comments Welcome! |
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I have to wonder sometimes what people are thinking when they fill out their profiles. I saw one a few minutes ago under "curious about"...that caused this post. She had put coffee shops. Now how can you be curious about coffee shops? They serve drinks, some of them sell little snacks, etc. This isn't rocket science I don't think...
Maybe I am a little short because of the temperature. It is 104 today and feels like 204! Summer is here! |
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The simple things in life amaze me the most. The things that people do that make no sense.
For example...posting a picture of yourself that is very unflattering. Now granted, we all are not "beautiful people", but come on folks, don't make it worse than it is! And I have yet to figure out why someone would post a nude picture of themselves...But that is just me.
I have always been under the impression that you catch more with sugar then you do with vinegar...maybe I am wrong... |
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Well, today I got out of the hospital after having a heart attack and 3 stints put in. Soooo, for all you kiddies out there, I think I have a message for you.
First, carry asprin with you all the time. For you ladies, put it in your purse. For you guys, get one of those little tins that carry 9 asprins and put it in your pocket.
You just might save your life or someone you are with.
And if you think you are 10' tall and bullet proof you are not! My family has no history of heart disease...I am not over weight, I eat healthy and exercise and it got me! Just a note for the day. |
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Well, I had a birthday on May 17th. I am now officially 63. Damn that seems old! I don't know where the time went...Seems just like yesterday, I was 21 footloose and fancy free.
Now that I am in my "Golden Years", I guess I am suppose to sit down, and watch the world go by. I am just having a hard time doing that... |
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I understand verbal humiliation, I think. What I don't understand is the need to use vulgar language. Can't you verbally humiliate someone with out using tasteless language?
If anyone would like to comment that would be great.... |
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There was a woman on TV a little while ago that would be termed a control freak in the vanilla world.
She controlled everything. What happened in her house, when meals were fed, who prepared them, who did the dishes, etc. She also told her husband what clothes to wear, who is friends would be, what he could eat, drink, etc.
She controlled every aspect of everything. Her husband had no say in anything that took place. She even told him what company to work for...is this over the top control? |
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I see all this nonsense about safe words and the slave being able to utter the "safe" word and the dominant stops doing whatever...
Who is in charge here? To me, it sounds like topping from the bottom.
I might could see using a safe word if you went to a Pro whom you did not know...but then what if she did not give a shit about safe words and did whatever?! Where is the fun in screaming your safe word and knowing she will stop?
In a normal situation, if there is such a thing, people get to know each other for a while. They date, go out, talk, and generally get to know the other person. You learn to trust one another and know there limits.
There is more to BDSM then running into the nearest empty room getting tied up and getting the shit beat out of you.
In a true slave/dominant world there are no safe words... if you are a slave then you are a slave...pure and simple. No decisions, just do and endure. |
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Well we are 6 months into our new presidents agenda and now his true intentions are coming out.
He is trying to turn us into France. He is putting us into debt that we will never repay, he is having the government take over everything...I guess the 600 plus concentration camps that we have here in the United States...some with gas chambers will come in handy when he completes his take over of our minds.
I am so disappointed in the American people that they did not see thru him.
I understand that everyone wanted change, so did I, but not this kind... |
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A couple of days back I had a lady write to me and say that my profile was to harsh...to harsh??? How does a profile be to harsh? I guess I was a little to rough around the edges for this Lady. Sorry, but I am not going to change...to harsh, now that is a new one on me! |
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Another amazement of mine is that it seems to be the general consenus that if you are submissive to a woman that you are weak, pathetic, a "Loser", etc...
Who in the hell came up with that notion!!!! From my perspective that is pure D bullshit!
Just because you wish to submit to woman does not mean or imply any of the above! In fact, to me it means just the opposite. I am comfortable enough with my manhood to show that side.
I try to live by Thumper's principal of "if you can't say something nice about someone don't say anything at all. |
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I am amazed at the number of female profiles that are so negative and nasty. I am not for sure, but I don't think you have to be nasty to be dominant.
Just an observation. I know that a lot of women get some really stupid emails, but that kind of is to be expected...so just delete them and go on...Life is to short to be upset by morons. |
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