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StephenDaedalus

I'm looking for that rare blend of vanilla and kink. . . I've learned a lot about myself over the last few years and one of the most important lessons has been how to truly enjoy my vanilla exterior. I really enjoy being able to move through the world (mostly) unnoticed. At the same time, I've got an excellent kink radar and I really enjoy finding it especially when it's hidden in plain sight. I pride myself on being a sensual/psychological top. Doling out physical discipline in its many delightful forms is definitely fun. However, there's something about the tension one can create by one's presence that can be kind of delicious as well. No? I'll be completely honest. I also like to have fun with the whole D/s dynamic. I'm definitely not a 24/7 type, and I know that setting up the framework of a scene is critical. At the same time, I enjoy being silly as well. My sense of the absurd keeps me grounded in life and it's certainly part of my play persona as well. The fun part of life is contrasts, wouldn't you say? . I'm not going to be too specific about what I'm looking for. Though I will say, that my kinks are only one part of who I am. I like to find balance, and I hope you do too. For the record, I can't play with anyone that I couldn't be friends with as well. So, it can't hurt if you're well read, intelligent, and delightfully snarky. Excelsior! (p.s., I do have real pics. I just have to be discrete because of my job.)

Mythica
 
 Age: 27
 Pretoria, South Africa