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So much on here is bullshit. Tonnes of male idiocy and a lot of the women have been so constantly bombarded and slowly eroded by these men that they dont even know what to look for anymore.
BDSM is becoming a world, not for those who want to explore darker fantasies, not for those who want to share their desires and delve into the deeper recesses of their libido, but instead it has become a melting pot for the wicked. Its become a place for the emotionally stunted and very much lost male, haplessly trying to get laid with no understanding for the depth in human understanding and sensuality it takes to create a balanced sex life. There are so many abused women on here, both here and on all the other main sites. For these women transative BDSM would be helpful but none of the men it seems even know what that is. If a women gets raped, for real. She will experience things like an adrenaline rush. Therefore it is not uncommon for a women whos suffered such things to desire, for instance, being smacked again very hard. This transs the feelings she now needs via someone who cares for her, who really cares. This satisfies a need that was forced upon her whilst keeping her within the embrace of affection. What shell get however is some idiot absentmindedly taking out his aggression and lust through her, and therein doing nothing but cementing the broken psychological patterns that now exist within her thought processes. So yes, actually, you need to both understand emotion and be in touch with your emotions so as to know how to responsibility and appropriately detach from them during deeper play. You need to understand your emotions and be in touch with your own body so as to know how to work hers. How to take her to darker places in the right way. As opposed to re-enforcing a world that tells women their only value is their sex. Because of this, most of the women on here think BDSM is about finding a detached, cold, pervert, an aggressor, for they have no worth and deserve to be punished, used and nothing else. That is not what BDSM is about at all.
BDSM is about sexual liberation and depth, its about connection, its about expanding your spectrum of pleasure and its about trust. Yet, if you speak to a women about emotion on here, they have either been so abused that theyve closed off emotionally altogether or theyre so ignorant now that they think emotion has no place in this world, and what theyre supposed to want is someone selfish, someone who cares for nothing except satisfying his or her own lust. They think their role is simply to endure so as to satisfy someone else. Its crap though, Ds is about balance and equality.
I have brought a women to orgasm simply by massaging her abdomen, no toys, nothing inside her, just the edge of my palm massaging her stomach, do you think we were able to do that without emotion, without turning her mind on first? How can I know her mind without getting to know her first, properly, intimately? I have also acted out sexually violent scenes with playmates, do you think in a million years that was done without us properly knowing each other first, without that scene developing naturally? You think I just walked into a room and beat a women down and raped her? No, we knew each other and we let our passion and our lust flourish. Do you even know why someone like me wants to flog your back, and why other so called Doms or Dommes are supposed to want to flog your back? Yes, there is an aggressive aspect but also, when we flog your back it brings the blood to the surface of the skin, that makes you even more sensitive. Do you have any idea how good it feels when a feather or an ice cube is run down your back after an impact session? All I hear now is bruise me, mark me, as if bruises didnt originally occur from two people in love simply fucking the shit out of each other, banging into things all over the room. Degrade me, humiliate me, Im worthless. If you want to feel humiliated and degraded, great, it makes you feel small within a world thats massive and full of craziness, that lack of responsibility can be very relieving. It feels great also to give someone the chance to fuck you with your head in the toilet and walk you around a room on all fours with his cock or their strap-on in your arse, like he or she is riding their very own little sex pony, because it gives them that sense that they can do whatever they want with you and thats a great turn on. Its also just good fun. Its all great, the problem however is doing that to someone out of distaste for them, doing it with someone who feels nothing for you and in turn you feel nothing for. Doing it just to do it. That is not right and thats the general point Im trying to make here. Emotion is good, caring is good, connection and love and humanity are good. These things dont just belong in BDSM, they are the core of it.
Im a sex addict, most of the time if Im messaging you its because I want to meet you and start fucking, to see if something is there. From thereon in things will grow naturally, organically, as kinks differ from person to person. Dont ever expect me not to care though. And start to realise, even the dirtiest sex, it will only be at its best when its with someone who does in fact care.
Schools out.
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