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It all begins in the mind! I'm a Dom with some years of experience, interested in connecting with adventurous women who wish to explore the many pleasures that Domination/submission has to offer.
Experience is not necessary, indeed a novice wishing to be introduced to this area is especially welcome. Age, looks and body type are not as important as an adventurous spirit and a cheerful approach to life. I delight in intelligent and sensitive women intrigued by the sexual and emotional possibilities of ceding control. I'm a practised spanker and like to think I'm rather good at it. Other interests are in certain forms of role play and in guided fantasy. Everything begins in the mind and I'm particularly interested in erotic hypnosis. I've had some extraordinary results and am deepening my interest and experience in this.
I like stimulation of all kinds: mental, intellectual, physical, sensory, and I hope to reciprocate.
8/12/2014 10:32:43 AM
So yeah, let's do coffee... I know a nice place with comfy chairs and cool music, not too crowded and has really good coffee. So yeah, coffee and chat. Kinda like on-line chat, but with coffee. And face-to-face obviously. And no need to do smileys or LOLs (LOL). Though I anticipate plenty of actual smiles and loads of actual laughs cause I do find you pretty interesting and kinda funny on here. That's why I asked you for coffee actually. And I'm hoping you might find me somewhat interesting also, cause you're up for a coffee. So yeah, looking forward to actual LOLs and smiles, and grins too I expect. Thoughtful silences also while I have a think about something really interesting you've said and that I've never thought of before and which confirms for me what a great idea it was asking you for a coffee. And I hope you won't mind me occasionally taking out a notebook and jotting down details of that band you recommend or that book you think I'd enjoy. And cause it's just a coffee, I mean it's not like it's a date, no need for you to get your hair done or buy a new top or anything. In fact please don't, cause that will make us both uncomfortable - with all the attendant expectations of compliment giving and receiving. And anyways we gotta be discreet here. Two perverts like us, meeting undercover in this nilla setting and talking in fetishy code. Let's keep things cool and not blow our cover and just pretend to be two friends catching up with - well, if they only knew! And the reality is that we're simply two human beings with shared interests who happen to frequent the same interesting website with our superhero handles and who thought it might be cool to get to know each other a bit better and no, not at all like those awkward dates we used to go on before we discovered, well... other ways of doing things. As we're both busy people with buses to catch and shopping to do, there is of course a time limit to the thing - say the 30 minutes or so it takes to slowly drink a large Americano. And afterward we can say "Oh yeah, I know her/him, we had a coffee a while back, interesting person actually". And later on, when we meet at a munch or event, we can exchange warm hellos in the knowledge that we're not simply online friends but have met for a coffee and might very well do so again. So, yeah, let's do coffee.
7/24/2014 2:56:29 AM
You're So Vain You signed into CollarSpace Like you were walking onto a yacht Your fetishes strategically placed on your list Your profile was oh so hot You had one eye in the mirror As you tied that bondage knot And all the subs dreamed that they'd be your play-partner They'd be your play-partner, and... You're so vain You probably think this post is about you You're so vain I'll bet you think this post is about you Don't you? Don't you? You mentored me several years ago When I was still a noob You said that we made such a polyamorous pair And that you would use good lube But you gave away the toys you loved And one of them was me I had some dreams, it was cool to be kinky Cool to be kinky and... You're so vain You probably think this post is about you You're so vain I'll bet you think this post is about you Don't you? Don't you? Well I hear you went to that fetish club And your subs naturally had fun Then you flew business class to attend a munch And impressed most everyone Well, you're where you should be all the time And when you're not, you're with Some otherworldly Domme or the slave of a close friend Slave of a close friend, and... You're so vain You probably think this post is about you You're so vain I'll bet you think this post is about you Don't you? Don't you?
8/25/2013 11:48:22 AM

The Ten Dommandments

 

1. I am thy Lord, thy Master, thou shalt not have weird Doms before me.

2. Thou shalt not take the name of thy Dom in vain, nor call him a wanker, knobhead or other disrespectful epithets.

3. Remember to keep holy No Knickers Day, likewise Steak & Blowjob Day and No-Playing-With-Yourself Day.

4. Honour thy Mentor and thy Protector.

5. Thou shalt not kill, or at least thou shalt not kill thy beloved Master, regardless of the immense provocation.

6. Thou shalt not commit adultery and even in an open relationship thou shalt run it by Master, just in case.

7. Thou shalt not steal nor 'lose' thy Master's whips, clamps, paddles or other ouchy things.

8. Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour or otherwise contravene protocol.

9. Thou shalt not covet they neighbour's Dom, play partner, fuck buddy, etc. regardless of how hot they are. Just no coveting, ok!

10. Thou shalt not covet they neighbour's toys, corsets or diamond-encrusted butt plug. However, drawing Master's attention to them while making goo-goo eyes is kinda cute and might just work.

 

10/7/2012 2:41:06 AM

Characteristics of a Master

The following is intended as a guide to aspiring Masters. It may also be of help to subs seeking the right Master to whom they can offer the wonderful gift of submission.

  • Rather than demanding the (auld) ride he will politely enquire if there is any chance of same.
  • He will not, having had a skinfull, engage in pointless disputes with nightclub door staff. He will follow your advice to walk away on the basis that the other fellow is not worth it.
  •  He will create neither a song nor a dance about you having to, at short notice, mind your sisters' young fella cause she got tickets for the karaoke.
  • He will not be remiss in making an effort sometimes and will be no stranger to a bar of soap.
  • He will know his onions in terms of D/s and related matters.
  • He will have a working knowledge of the female anatomy.
  • His confidence will be such that he will not slouch around the place like a long string of misery.
  • He will both notice and admire your new hair do.
  • He will not be up his own arse but up yours, if this is mutually agreed.
  • He will be open to embracing your fashion and grooming suggestions.
  • He will act neither the prick not the bollox.
  • He will not be the sort to sit on his hole and moan.
  • He will buy you chips and fla you, should you so desire.
  • He will not prove to be a langball.
  • He will regularly demonstrate that he did not come down in the last shower.
  • He will not be after just the one thing but after many things.
  • He will certainly not be a feckin’ eejit.
  • He will not think that he is GGTW.
  • He will get a shout in before closing.
  • He will open a book now and again.
  • When called upon, he will do the decent thing.
  • He will get up off his lazy arse if the situation demands it.
  • He will regularly inform you (unprompted) that you are a roide.
  • He will not do it with yer best mate.
  • He will not upbraid you for ruining his buzz. You will be his buzz.
  • Important though his mates are, he will schedule regular appointments with you.
  • He will have both a phone charger and credit and not be suspiciously unavailable.
  • He will consider you the business.
  • He will draw no unfavourable parallels between you and his ma.
  • He will not do a runner despite the stress he feels he is under.
mercuriapax
 
 Age: 19
 Sydney, Australia