To begin, let me say up front that I’m an older (in years only, everything else is aging much more slowly!) but a married man. It’s a long story just how my present predicament came to be but it’s probably rather typical. Suffice to say that things haven’t gone as I had expected. Prior to my marriage I was quite involved in Dominate adventures within the lifestyle. Having had a career in the music business, my personal Dominate adventures were quite satisfying and educational.

Now, for the past 20 years, I have had to learn to suppress my dominate nature and need for control behind closed doors. I have spent those years hoping that a change would come but only found myself getting older and core needs becoming harder to suppress. During the past few years I have placed a few profiles on sites such as CM hoping to find a voice from the wilderness that would understand or maybe even a submissive female counterpart experiencing a similar situation. However, so far I have not found what I am looking for.

I am still hoping to find an understanding mind to communicate with or a co-conspirator than can be discrete about meeting should things work out. I’m not interested in changing my life at this time but mutually beneficial conditions could arise.

If you are seriously interested, please contact me. IM, webcam, chat, email are all OK.

Pics upon request…..Discrete…..remember?