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About me: Introductions
I am an experienced, mindful, creative and passionate Dom / Trainer / Facilitator. I was introduced to BDSM in my 20s (in San Fransisco) and began by exploring both Dom and Sub role-play. I gained a lot of erotic self-understanding from those times thanks to a supportive community of friends, teachers and mentors. Lately I have been most active in the role of a Dom Trainer of Sub women and as Mentor to Dom/Switch woman and men. I take the responsibilities of being a Trainer seriously. I form a strong commitment to the people who offer me their trust and vulnerability. I passionately focus on their development and fulfillment. The erotic possibilities and life changing lessons that the path of D/S offers still calls to me when conditions with a trusted and aware partner.
I’m a Fit, mature, strait, caucasian HTWP attractive confident man, (5’9”, 170 lb.) Gray hair (what’s left of it) and a trimmed beard. I am described as grounded, articulate, creative, worldly, inquisitive and contemplative.
Being a guiding hand to a sub’s journey of self-discovery and fulfillment is tangibly arousing and intriguing to me. To facilitate and witness transformation is a true Dom’s highest calling.
For me a meaningful D/S relationship requires consistency, intimacy and respect form both partners in order to build trust and foster open communication. I have found that without a foundation of communication and trust the profound depths of the D/S relationship cannot be accessed. I have experienced a trust based fulfilling D/S partnership in the past and desire to revisit the experience.
I am interested in forming profound ongoing relationships within a mindful, enthusiastic Subs and Trainees. Meeting consistently for training sessions to explore with integrity and passion the pathways of a D/S partnership based on trust and communication. Having a time and place separate and apart from the day-to-day world where We create Our World, our rules, our priorities and our rewards is one of my primary goals. I find co-creating a session that is respectful of boundaries and satisfies both partner’s needs best opens the door to safe mutual self-discovery.
I am actively looking for a long term committed primary relationship. I am open to various options in form from full 24/7, M/s with supportive 1950’s household elements to a more collaborative primary relationship with strong D/s dynamics limited to agreed to context.
A profound ongoing D/S relationship is a rare and precious thing, difficult to foster even within this context, but the possibilities motivate me. I am willing to invest the time and energy to see what can make it a reality.
My work life/profession requires discretion. Even here I operate somewhat “under the radar”. . However I am willing to share photos with people I have establish trust with and potential partners. I have a fetLife profile with personal photos and videos. I welcome one on one dialog and meeting in person when the time is right.
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